i treat her REALLY BAD. i know i wouldnt put up with me... why does she ?
2007-01-10 12:46:07 · 52 answers · asked by Benjie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cuz women like it. She is likely the submissive type who prefers to be controlled or she finds you to be a challenge.
2007-01-10 12:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably because she has no self-esteem and believes she can change you. Some girls are in love with love and like the idea of having a boyfriend---any boyfriend. Either that or she sees a diamond in the rough. You didn't mention what you do by treating her bad; however, you acknowledge your bad behavior. Maybe you want her to dump you. If you're really treating her bad, you deserve it!
2007-01-10 12:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a very lucky Man. She must realy love you... But it wouldnt stay that long if you dont stop treating her bad... The thing is, you know that you're treating her like that and you still do it... Why? You know that its wrong so don't do it anymore... treat her right or someone else will...
2007-01-10 12:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by raiden 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and dump her, you chicken! Many people will treat the other one very poorly because they figure if they treat them badly enough, the other person will grow some balls and be the one to split up the relationship.
2007-01-10 12:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is most definitely in love with you and she thinks that things will get better and she has probably thought of what things would be like if you guys broke up and she probably cant stand that feeling you are obviously everything to her and she doesn't want to be without you she probably thinks she will die without you! my question to you is why do you you treat her bad? and if you know you treat her bad then why don't you stop treating her like that?
2007-01-10 13:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by i am so much in love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the terrible way that you treat her has lowered her self-esteem and now she thinks that no one else would want her. Now that you've realized how bad you treat her, maybe you can work hard to make up for it and treat her right.
2007-01-10 12:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has low self-esteem and doesn't think she deserves to be treated well. By the way, you have low self-esteem too. That's why you have a need to treat her poorly. If you felt better about yourself, it would show in your actions and you would be a kinder person. Sorry, but the truth hurts.
2007-01-10 12:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably have beaten herself esteem so bad that she feel that if you treat her bad someone else will to. So why split and have to go through it with someone else when she already knows you and more or less knows how to handle it. You love her you just don't know it or won't admit it and are probably mentally testing your GIRLFRIEND. 'Come on you refereed to her as your girlfriend. When I guy truly does not have a GIRLFRIEND he refers her to as B.... or that girl or something else. But you admitted said my Girlfriend. Just be truthful to yourself and her and be yourself not some jerk who treats her like **** to show off or show some kind of mojo.
2007-01-10 12:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by florie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's be honest, girl's like the chase. Any girl worth talking to isn't going to talk to a guy who treats them like gold 100% of the time.
2007-01-11 02:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Markooch210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks she deserves it. or that she wont do any better. why do u treat her like sh it? if u start treating her good, she'll probably be so happy that she'll do anything for you. another reason she stays could be if u were threatening her but if u were u wouldnt be asking
2007-01-10 12:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I would like to know is ... if you KNOW you are treating her bad, why are you doing it? I would bet she likes you a lot. She's probably willing to put up with your bad behaviour because she sees something good in you. Why not try to be that person she knows you are? Ask her why she puts up with you... then for your own sake and hers, smarten up!
2007-01-10 12:51:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋