Me and my BF live together and have been for like 5 months. He likes to watch porn....which I am ok with but for some reason I have a problem with pictures of a naked woman. I know that is wierd but I guess because the movies are actually ppl having sex but the pictures is like he is fantacising about another woman? I know that I look nothing like that. By him looking at those pictures (like porn pictures and playboy and things like that) does that mean that he wishes I looked like that? I am not ugly or anything....but I don't look like Jenna Jameson!!
2007-01-10 12:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry. If he starts collecting pictures of just one woman, then worry because he'll be obsessing. You are just experiencing the kind of insecurity that our society breeds into us. Heck, want to get into the picture? Doll yourself up and take some pictures of yourself naked on a digital camera, then give them to him as a gift.
2007-01-13 13:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Magic One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 03:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he is into porn, but that isn't going to hold all of his attention. I would recommend trying to figure out exactly what, or as close as you can, it is about porn, that gets him off. Then simply in real life, out do the porn. Catch him in a vulnerable but acceptable time. I'm not suggesting anything off limits, just blow his socks off and I'm sure he will be more likely to put more of his attention on you. Have great sex and don't forget about all the other things you could be doing together.
2007-01-12 10:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by American 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a biological reaction. He sees naked women and that gets him aroused. It's perfectly natural and it does not mean he wants them more than you. It's a good sign that your relationship is so strong that he lets you know he likes porn rather than watching it in secret behind your back.
Perhaps it would help you if you got more involved in his porn viewing, perhaps have sex or masturbate him whilst he watches? Then you wouldn't feel as if you're being left out.
2007-01-11 21:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by Timmy T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, he's just fantasizing. It means nothing! You're fine, believe me!
2007-01-11 05:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just fantasy.. you are the real thing...:)
2007-01-11 21:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋