ok look....me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and he u know bust a N** all in me and he said im get pregnant and he start takin about baby stuff and all but 2 days later i started on my period and usually when i have sex i don start on a period a month later.... i wanna know whats up wit that....
2007-01-10 12:20:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It is possible (though not exactly common) to have a period right after the baby is conceived. Some women actually continue to get their periods (or something like it) through their entire pregnancy. ...again, it's not really common and you're probably not pregnant.
The best thing you can do now (if it's been a few days, it may be too late for emergency contraception) is wait for a couple of weeks and then take a pregnancy test. See how this period goes...is it lighter, heavier, more painful, shorter or longer than usual?
For future reference, there is a "Morning After" pill which is now available over-the-counter at your local drugstore if you're over 18 (call 1-800-230-PLAN for a prescription if you are under 18) that you can take if that happens again...get it RIGHT AWAY if it happens again. (Call a local clinic and they can help you). It will reverse what you did the night before. You can even get it now to use in the future just in case. Don't start using it as a birth control method though, just get on the pill or something...it's easier and safer for you. (see links below)
ANY time you have sex you could be pregnant (yes, even if he doesn't "bust a N**"!)....SEX IS THE ACT OF MAKING A BABY. It used to be the only reason a married couple had sex, it is the reason that animals have sex. Nowadays, it's rarely the reason that humans have sex, and people seem to forget that THAT is what you are doing when you have sex....making a baby! The ONLY thing that prevents the BABY part from happening is YOU and what you ACTIVELY do to stop it from happening.
Men don't think about that stuff...they don't have to...their consequences are not nearly as severe. For example, some diseases (STDs)that WOMEN get from sex can cause infertility for YOU and even death/cancer. ...not to mention hauling around a little bambino with you wherever you go..putting your future on hold, and not being emotionally ready to be a parent. Is that fair to the child?
Will the MAN have to deal with any of that? No! YOU need to be the one that protects and respects YOUR body, that ACTIVELY plans and makes choices that are good for you... because really, HE has almost NO incentive to be the one that's looking out for YOUR safety when it comes to sex.
No, it's not fair... but, it's reality.
Hopefully, you will demand more respect for your body and your woman parts in the future and either make your man wear a condom, or get on some kind of birthcontrol - there are so many out there and plenty available for cheap or free at your local clinic, and emergency contraception is as easy to get as buying Tylenol at the drugstore!... there is no excuse or reason for BOTH of you to risk so much for a few seconds of pleasure.
I had to full-out lecture my boyfriend on what getting pregnant would do to my body, to my future, to OUR lives...how disrespectful he's being to my body... for about an hour before it got through his thick skull to quit trying to do it without a condom!
I guess there's really no point in worrying too much about it until you take a pregnancy test. It may help you to take this time and think about what it means to be a mother, where you are in your life and if it's good for you to be raising another human being right now...do you really want to be thinking about someone else's future right now, or are you still planning yours? Who is this guy..is HE ready to be a good father? (Cuz I'll tell you right now, HE's NOT thinking about any of that when he's "all in you" potentially becoming one!)
The best birthcontrol: watch an episode of Maury when he's testing paternity! ;)
Check out the referenced websites below for some great information!
2007-01-10 13:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Angela H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start your period is independent of when you have sex. Obviously, you had sex in a safe time, because you started your period 2 days later. Typically a cycle is 28 days or so. You had sex on day 26. Usually you are fertile for a few days in the middle of your cycle.
2007-01-10 20:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Becca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your guy wants to get you pregnant on purpose. When you start your period has nothing to do with when you last had sex. It's probably too early for you to have symptoms, so just wait & see if you get your period next month. Until then, use a condom.
2007-01-10 20:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was in a english format I would probably understand the full context of this so-called question.
But all I offer you is this
1. re-write q in plain english (like is tought at school)
2. get yourself on the pill or even better get the depo injection, then you want have to remember to take the pill
3.Use condoms
4. This is important...think not what a child can bring to your life, BUT what can you give to a child
Can you provide the proper neccesities of life (education, morals, clothing, food, safety, health) that are required for the healthy up-bringing of a child. Can this boyfriend provide these desirable qualities to a childs life also.
Please stay at school, get educated, get a career and have something in your life that a child can look at and be proud of when he/she thinks of thier parents.
You're really scaring me.................
2007-01-10 22:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by morphed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a jerk yanking your chain. Ignore any relies that talk about his symptoms - they dont exsists.
If you got your period you are not pregnant.
Your question made little sence, by the way.
2007-01-10 20:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the lovely wording of your questine I would recomend birth control. You are clearly not ready to be a parent. I am not even sure that you are ready to be sexuly active.
2007-01-10 21:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by coliepollie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so you're not pregnant. Not yet. If you don't want to be pregnant you need to have a serious conversation with your guy. Or get a new guy!
2007-01-10 20:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by fdm215 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having any symptoms. How long ago was this. What makes him think that you are pregnant. Is he having symptoms cause some men do....
2007-01-10 20:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rochelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are youlike 5 yrs old or something! I HOPE you're not about to be a parent, geez!
2007-01-10 20:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This made next to no sense.
2007-01-10 20:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by LP's Mommy, RN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋