I've been dating someone and all we have in common is sex. But I want more. Should I look elsewhere?

Question

This guy I've been dating is only interested in sex. But I want more. Should I hang in too see if he takes it further or look elsewhere. We've been dating for two months and he doesn't hold my hand or hug me. I feel like I'm just convenient for him. What should I do?

Answer 1

You need to sit down and talk to him.
Good Luck

Answer 2

you gotta be kidding me you only have sex thats it -----------
ok listen to me
when a guy only has sex with you that could mean 3 things ---
1. he could be just using you (check if he has another girl on the side)
2. sometimes there are horny perverted guys who see girls as one thing sex toy!!! ---
or 3. last one, some guys just think that you are one of those girls that wanna f u c k all the time and most guys decide that depending on when you gave it up and how much you gave him
but having sex and you've been with him for only 2 months thats 2 soon to give him sex often i would imagine you would only do it once just to test the sex you know what i mean

so this is what you do ---ask him be like"hey baby how far are we gonna be doing this thang" if he's like can we talk later i wanna hit it right now then gurl you need a man who LOVES you not luvs you

Answer 3

.You should sit him down and have along talk with him and tell him how you feel. If he don't want to take this to the next level then get rid of him because all he doing is using you for sex!! try not to have sex with the next person so early make them wait for awhile. Because when you give it up so early then no guy want to think about being in a relationship, because they feel like its too available.

Answer 4

You've already answered your own question.... You obviously are not fulfilled with this relationship. You may want to talk to him if you are really into him, but chances are you'll get some empty promise. There are 5 billion people on this earth. Go find someone who wants you for more than just your body since that is what you want.

Answer 5

Looks like you will have to take the initative and give him hugs and take his hand. If he responds in a positive way, thats a start. Suggest more activities outside the bedroom. You will find out what other fun you can have.

Answer 6

If he is only interested in sex it is time to move on. While sex is important to relationship, you are missing out on so much more...conversation, caring, affection, etc. It is scary to be alone, but it will all be worth it when you find someone truly wonderful. As someone once sang, "Breaking up is hard to do." Yeah, I am showing my age. While I'm at it, I will add "You have to be cruel to be kind."

Good luck,

Lenny

Answer 7

well i think you should date him if he likes sex ask him on yalls next date ask him if he wants to have sex and by the way make shure you take no as an anser have sex with him for about 2 hours maybie one hour but if you do he will hug you and kiss you and if yall have lot of sex and he likes you yall will get maried

Answer 8

i think you ahould look for someone else cuz sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship. chemistry, passion, and feeling like you're more than a toy is important. so look around. you'll find someone else.

Answer 9

best to look for someone else as it seems by what you say that you are just that convenient and only when he has nothing else to do.

Answer 10

if you have feelings for him i don't see why it would hurt to talk about it before you start looking somewhere else. if it comes to that, you leaving him, maybe you should establish what kind of relationship your after in the beginning.