words of encouragement please?

Question

i am almost 7 months pregnant and i feel really crappy. my face is all splotchy, i feel fat and ugly, and i could really use some kind words from someone

Answer 1

To the father of the child:

There is nothing more beautiful on God's green earth, than a woman glowing with the radiance of your unborn child. She is to be protected, honored, cherished, and treasured like nothing you have ever beheld. Love her, care for her, treasure her, for once that child is born, you will experience a love like you have never felt before; and you will understand that it would have not been possible, without the glory that is your maiden.

Does that help?

Answer 2

I can totally sympathize with you. When I was pregnant with my first child, I went in weighing at 115lb, and by the time my daughter was born I was a whooping 210lb,now my daughter was 10lb2oz, and I was thought to have been suffering from diabiates and went undiagnosed, I felt miserable, having said that pregnancy is such a small part of the world you are about to enter in, I hope in the next two months you can allow yourself to be happy with the way you are even if it is foreign to you, you won't always be this way, and I am willing to bet to the people around you, think you are beautiful... When you are feeling crappy take time for yourself, run a bubble bath, get a massage, lay and read a good book, just do something for you, especially if this is your first child as your free time for a while won't just be yours anymore... Look in the mirror and tell yourself this is what I am supposed to look like, I'm beautiful, as corny as that sounds, that positive talk will hopefully put you in a different place. As far as your face, I also had some skin issues, and what worked best for me was water, and lots of it... just not to close to bed time as I am sure you are aware, you are up enough in the night without filling your blatter just before bed... Good Luck! remember treat yourself, you deserve it.

Answer 3

First of all, pregnancy is beautiful on women! You do not look fat and ugly to the rest of the world! You face may be red in patches and you may not feel so good because of your diet. At this point, food probably doesn't sound appetizing but try to eat lots of dark green veggies and fruits like apples, tomatoes, and melon. Those things will help you feel a little better!

I've been there, done that, and I promise, it does end! Treat yourself to some hot chocolate and a good movie and call it a night. You'll feel better soon. Maybe you could start a baby book to keep your mind off it. You aren't ugly, or fat! Thats your baby in there waiting to see you, mommy!

Good luck! :)

Answer 4

God is doing a wonderful thing for you. You are truly blessed to even be able to have a baby. Some women can't even have children and would feel totally blessed for the opportunity you have been given no matter how fat they get or how splotchy their face gets. I hope your spirits are lifted soon because you don't seem to realize how blessed you are. I say this because I am unable to have children. I was diagnosed with Endometriosis years ago and it has done severe damage to my fallopian tubes. Try to take the good with the bad. Rub your belly and be thankful.

Answer 5

I am five months pregnant with my 2nd child. I know how you feel and it is completely normal. To be pregnant is an honor, many women are not able to carry a child. Even though you may not feel beautiful right now there is a glow about pregnant women that others see. Maybe what you need is a pamper day or at your next Dr. visit make sure your Dr. lets you listen to the heartbeat so you can get excited about that little one inside you who only wks away from meeting their mommy

Answer 6

Every pregnant woman experiences some kind of discomfort during her pregnancy. Some are lucky and only have a few things to deal with. Others aren’t so lucky and have a long list of common discomforts women deal with when they are pregnant, it doesn’t end there! Talk only to people who give good and positive things about you. Shun words even from family members that discourage you. Or maybe talk to your unborn child, she's hearing you and remember what you feel, she's feeling too. If you can afford it, buy maternity dresses that you think suits you. Or maybe wear underwear that you feel comfortable and sexy too. Remember... pregnant women are very beautiful.

Answer 7

its normal i think... i am just starting to show (at that fat but not quite pregnant look) and my face is nasty and pimply for the first time in my life and i am only 4 1/2 months, but i am pretty sure that at the end of it we will both be looking back on our pregnancies thinking, that was nothing too bad considering the perfect little angels we'll be holding. I think that if you just think about your baby and how much you love it already and you've never met that it will put a smile on your face- it works for me! good luck and keep you chin up soon you'll have a baby to put on a happy face for...

Answer 8

You just have to stay positive because soon, all the ugly and fat feelings will go away once you look at your baby for the first time. I always felt the same way as you when I got close to having my kids. Keep your chin up, it will be worth it.

Answer 9

I was 100 lbs before I got pregnant.... all of the sudden my butt was huge, and I had the worst pregnancy acne of all time!!! I gained 40lbs, all the while looking at my twin sister looking great! It sucks. But once that baby gets here, and you see him/her for the first time, you'll realize what's important... and you'll eventually get back to your pre-pregnancy weight, skin, hair, etc. I promise! Not everyone "glows" while pregnant... you're not alone!
p.s. pregnant women are the most beautiful beings in the world!

Answer 10

Put on your sneakers and go for a walk get hot and sweaty then come home shower and oil up till you shine and have a hot session with your hubby, and you'll know you're still a firecracker baby! Your carrying a child, and there is nothing ugly about that. You're beautiful!!!