There's a guy at my highschool a grade younger than me (junior. sophomore) He's always hugging me and grabbing my hands, and i've showed intrest back. I know he's a huge flirt with alot of girls, but he flirts with me more by far. I want him to completely fall for me. Should i play hard to get. Or keep up what i'm doing. Deets please!
2007-01-10 10:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by hill <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play hard-to-get since u said he's a flirt. He'll work real hard for what he wants. If you keep up whatever you're doing, your feelings may be toyed. Not a good thing even if you're willing. Hope this helps. =)
2007-01-10 11:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by travisdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with this guy about what you want and don't want. Don't screw around with headgames. Tell him exactly what you want - short and long term.
For example, do you want him to keep flirting with other girls?
It could be that you just *think* you're getting the most attention, but someone else is quicker on the ball and gets this all sorted out with him first. Then you'll be the one left out in the cold. So no more wasting time.
Good luck!
2007-01-10 11:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope you would want him to fall for you for yourself and not because of the games you play. If you are naturally coy and flirtatious then just continue being yourself. High school is a great time to date a lot of different guys -- so don't focus on just one in particular. You are gaining important information of your likes and dislikes that will come in handy later when you truly are ready for a more serious relationship.
Just relax and have fun! I think you are a sensible girl and you'll be fine.
2007-01-10 11:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is alot like me. at my school i flirt with all my female friends, most of the time it doesnt mean anything. find out whether he is just flirting or is really interested if he is just go for it!
2007-01-10 11:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by gaara_o_sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a biological need of most males to prefer the opposite sex past their baby years. Its instinct.
2007-01-10 11:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by greenbase65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well never play hard to get. wall guys get annoyed when girls do that. just do what your doing and let him know u like him. good luck
2007-01-10 11:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play hard to get.
2007-01-10 11:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋