I'm in love with a boy in my class with whom I've had a lot of experiences with, as a friend. But one day he acts REALLY hard to get and pulls away and another he's inseparable with me. My best friend says he likes HER, because he looks at her a lot, but I'm not so sure... he just has deep eyes! but maybe he does like her!. She says she dosen't like him, but I'm not that sure either about that. Nobody knows that I love him. But I'm so hurt because I know I will NEVER be with him!.
Please help!, what can I do???.
I try 2 b hard to get as much as I can.
He's soo special to me and I can't forget him!.
What can I do? Will I heal? HELP me! He's the man of my life. He's PERFECT 4 me.
oxox, thanks so much!.
2007-01-10 10:44:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey guys.. I can't TELL him! it'll ruin everything and he'll start acting weird if he dosen't like me back (trust me, I know him), and what then?!, it would all just collapse into a big disaser. Have anymore ideas, please??.
2007-01-10 11:59:28 · update #1
wow! it's scary but i went through the exact same thing. I'm gonna start off by saying that everything WILL work out, and will fall into place before you know it.
I've had so much expierience with a guy like this, that i have alot of advice to give you. He's the kind of guy that flirts alot, and trust me, do not play hard to get. He could easily pick another girl if you show no interest. But when i say that, don't be obsessed. play it cool.
Your friend is probably feeling like you do, and likes him back, but isn't saying anything cuz i'm guessing she knows you like him. It's kind of annoying cuz my friend did the exact same thing!! and i was to the point where i wanted to be like... get over yourself. he likes me. Sometimes he acts to cool to be around you, most likely when he's by other girls, or his guys. and can be a jerk when he's like this. Ignore it and remeber if he's the guy you like him for, he should be nice to you all the time, not just occasionally..
It's so much fun liking a guy like that, but trust me it can be a heart break. my advice is play it out day by day, and if you need any more advice e-mail me. i have plenty.
good luck <3
2007-01-10 11:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by hill <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just in puppy love. Is he really the PERFECT person for you? This guy plays hard to get and pulls away from you. How is that perfect?
You can find someone else so much better so don't think you can't and give up. You'll find someone alot more special and great. All you need to do is to be patient and to explore more.
2007-01-10 19:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by DD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've like a girl before, this other guy like her too. The whole class know about them, but not me and her. I've confessed to her but our story was really low-profiled. If you know you'll never be with him, you'll never heal. The only thing you can do is to freeze him in your memory. Meet someone new, and soon, he'll just melt away together with your feelings for him.
Cause it'll be sad if you kinda like this new guy who likes you too but you can't love him because you're still thinking about the boy in your class.
All I can say is, no harm trying, loving someone means getting hurt yourself. So just confess to him how you really feel! Who knows what kind of answer you'll get? ;) hope this helps.
2007-01-10 19:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by travisdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may seem like a great guy and that he is perfect for you and you just want to be the one that kisses him and is held by him. And you really want to show your friend that he really likes you, but the truth is that he may seem great but he may think he is a player and that he can get away with anything. Don't put yourself out there, give it time, talk to him more. Talk on the phone, IM him, you know stuff like that.
2007-01-10 18:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take som time girl. its soo hard 2 deal wit when u luv sombody and they dont even know bout it. u can always listen 2 the song called Secret Love by JoJo, it speaks for itself. go on and listen 2 it if u can get it. it'll make u feel better.
2007-01-10 19:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing hard to get and flirt a little and see what happens. If he does like you, he'll never make a move if he thinks he stands no chance.
2007-01-10 18:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a problem with your heart beating you need to see a cardiologist. The longer you leave it the more brain damaged you will become. I speak from experience.
2007-01-10 18:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
three words flirt flirt flirt im goin through thesame thing 1 day its like he wont shut up the next he doesnt talk your heart will beat but just not thesame if hes not dating yor friend then take that as a time to tell your friend that you like him
2007-01-10 19:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If he's your friend you can tell him. This is hard but you got to do it. Maybe he feels the same way. If he doesn't he is your friend and he will understand and you can still remain friends.
2007-01-10 18:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~αlbα~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him. Tell him how you feel, he should understand and if you have the nerve to ask him out, go ask him out before they are together.....
Good luck!
2007-01-10 19:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋