Im very independent, always have been,which has proved a problem in relationships,would like to find someone that can be manly but not a control freak,I dont need looking after,I dont want looking after...why do men seem to think that a women on her own with a child needs taking control of,please tell me all men are not like it?
2007-01-10 10:43:17 · 10 answers · asked by 1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
been married, he though the grass was greener etc,turns out it was just moss!
2007-01-10 11:32:07 · update #1
Most men are like that not all, it's not a bad quality, it really isn't, but most men just naturally want to take care of the woman and child.
They don't do it because they think the woman is weak they do it because of nature, the male tends to take care of the female, most animals work like that, so do humans.
You just need to find someone who is understanding of the fact that your like that and don't want someone controlling, it's hard, but there are guys like that out there. Good luck, i'm sure you'll find one!
2007-01-10 10:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are and always will be protective of the woman and children that they love. End of story. Some people mistake that concern as controlling behavior, but I think that more often than not they are wrong with the label.
If you truly want a man not to "control"/care what you are doing and so on......find a friends with benefits relationship. I can almost guarantee there will not be a control issue involved
2007-01-10 11:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by alive again today 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 15:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by domnick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married is no guarentee you won't die a lonely old woman... guys usually die first and leave you alone.
They're not all like that either. You just have to be patient. REAL patient.
2007-01-10 10:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of being a fellow mother who was single forever.......
I am also VERY INDEPENDENT AND DO NOT NEED LOOKING AFTER so i stopped looking for the perfect guy and found my forever in a walmart cart pusher....... who gave me his # after helping me to the car with my stuff......... going on 6 years now, just stop looking hun and he'll walk into your life...........
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
ps he's a GREAT MANN AND GOOD WIT MY KIDS
2007-01-10 10:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men are like that,and u cant stop them unlesss u want a divorce?so just go by the rule even if u dont like it,me too i dont really like that but if u cant beat them u join them okay
2007-01-10 17:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer?
You are overreacting to a natural thing. If you are naturally like that, then some others are natrually different.
2007-01-10 11:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even i think so, some time but dont bother to hve partner, cause my gf tried to control me but i dont like in some ways...but i m sure there r some peoples who realy cares,
2007-01-10 11:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by ex_m. thank God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think men like to be protective of their women and their family it's a natural thing.
2007-01-10 11:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by christophers_mum2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's male instinct to want to play the role of protector.
2007-01-10 11:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋