he still likes to talk to me online, but he doesn't email me anymore (even when I ask him to) doesn't say sweet things, etc. At first, I thought he was weird caus he asked me to be his girlfriend on our first date. I pretty much said no. He didn't ask again on the second date. Everytime I try and initiate plans, he doesn't seem into it. I told him how I felt, and he didn't talk to me for a few days. Now, he wants to hang out. What should I do? I know this isn't all about '***', since I had to ask him to kiss me. (just to rule that out for you guys). Thanks
2007-01-10 10:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by kellz8706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you REALLY put him off by rejecting him. Not to say that you were wrong for rejecting him, but he's obviously got some ideas about dating that he should have outgrown from high school, and you don't see clearly enough to realize that. Adults go on dates, they don't jump right into a relationship.
If you really like him and weren't rude to him in rejecting him, I think this should be simple enough to fix. You need to just tell him that you feel like you barely knew him and that's why you didn't want to be his girlfriend. Tell him you would like to get to know him a bit before you make that jump. Surely he will cheer up, you know? Good luck!
2007-01-10 10:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion, there are simply too many players on that site. It could be a million different rasons as to why he is acting so strange. Basically though he does not seem to possess the type of relationship skills to maintain a healthy relationship. I would view that as a major red flag and sign. I fear that if you did ever get involved in a relationship with him, it would include a lot of game playing. My advice: head the warning and move on.
2007-01-10 10:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would wonder if he has a girlfriend or wife already, since he seems unavailable when you invite him on dates. Also, I don't know his age, but he has to be at least 18 to be on match, but I think asking you to be his girlfriend on a first date if weird. Plus, he ignores you when you are truthful, which makes him seem like a jerk who you wouldn't want to get involved with.
There are lots of nice guys on match (I met mine there), so keep looking and don't settle for someone who seems so sketchy.
2007-01-10 10:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he isn't initiating anything...he does not like you that much.
You need to move on and quit acting needy. This guy is a big fat zero!
You kind of answered your own question when you said he didn't seem into it. He isn't.
2007-01-10 10:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its awkward when you get rejected by someone you like and then still hanging out with them.. you ned to talk to him..
2007-01-10 10:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... match.com? does that stuff really work? have you hooked up w/ a guy (bedroom relations) from match.com?
2007-01-10 10:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by I Know 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds weird. move on
2007-01-10 10:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋