I met him on the internet. he looks charming and nice.
He called during the first week. Then we started chatting oftenly.
Suddenly, he stops calling. Then he stops being online. Then he calls again to say hi. Then he sends emails saying how busy he is and what he does, without saying how does he feel about me, if he is still interested or not, even when I specifically asked him. What do I do?? Why is he asking like a jerk even being of his age?? Why Why Why why do they hurt us that way??
2007-01-10 10:11:15 · 10 answers · asked by bloodymary24 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've asked how he felt, he didn't respond. THAT is your answer. Don't get upset or hurt...he's some guy you met online (not offline). There should be no emotional involvement (or very little) at this stage.
I can see being annoyed or disappointed, but not "hurt".
Learn the lesson, let it go, move on.
2007-01-10 10:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEy some guys on the internet sometimes lie and see how far they can get. But he sounds like he's married to me. MAybe his old lady caught him on the computer and read some of his stuff and he had to find a different computer to chat and send e-mail from. But some guys are stupid and insensitive thinking once you chat with a girl and e-mail a lot she will wait for you. SO want to chat more IM me anytime
2007-01-10 10:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Are you old enough to talk to an older legally? And you met him on the net, so how could he really have feelings for you if he never really met you? Calm down sweetie, just move on and find someone else, hopefully in person.
2007-01-10 10:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is something obviously up with him, as often is the case with people you meet on-line, No one knows their real story and you never got to meet him in person. No one can hurt you unless you let them. so do not let them. plus, consider yourself lucky, he probably isn't good enough for you and the fact that this "relationship", never went to the next level is for the best, don't take it too hard, just let it go and move on.
2007-01-10 10:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He definitely has someone else, It sounds like this is a sport for him, he enjoys the chase, but maybe not much more than that. Don't take it personally. And one more thing, his age and his maturity level are not necessarily proportional.
2007-01-10 10:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by fevinator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the loser, he sounds married. I'm sorry to tell you that some people are just born jerks and remain jerks for their entire lives.
2007-01-10 10:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady you sound like a basket case. If you carry on with him as you have here its no wonder he's avoiding you.
Act your age...which hopefully is a mature 30-ish.
2007-01-10 10:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He isn't that interested in you. That is all.
Be cordial but look for someone else.
They don't intentionally hurt, they just lose interest.
2007-01-10 10:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's acting like he's 13. Find someone who will act their age.
2007-01-10 10:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's Married!
2007-01-10 10:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋