Wiccan/Pagan: What are the correspondences for "popularity"?

Question

Moon?
Herbs?
Incense/Oil?
Stones?
Number?
Day?
Color?

Answer 1

Strawberry leaves and Rose Quartz.

Answer 2

Actually, popularity is fleeting. Trust me, I know--I got picked on horribly from 2nd grade all the way through high school graduation. There's no spell that can make it all better. (I'm assuming that you're asking this for yourself because of how your question was worded.)

My recommendation is thus: work magic to make yourself more confident, along with mundane efforts to the same end. For example, if someone says something unkind, rather than automatically reacting, stop yourself. Then look at the situation and ask, "Will this really matter in, say, ten years?" Chances are it won't. At the same time, cultivate friendships with good people, people who accept you as you are.

As for correspondences, that's really up to you. The trick with magic is to make it meaningful to the person practicing it. For example, if someone told me that a red candle would work for healing, but I associate blue with healing instead, I would probably have better luck with a blue candle.

So go through each of the correspondences you listed and figure out what of each category most resembles confidence to you, as well as emotional healing. If you need suggestions, you might try a book of correspondences; I'm particularly fond of Scott Cunningham's works in that regard, but that's just me.

The way that I found relative popularity was by finding people that have similar worldviews to mine. I hang out with a lot of other pagans, and since we don't see each other as "weird" or "crazy" it helps out quite a bit.

Answer 3

My question is: Why is this so incredibly important to you? I would suggest first some reflection exercises to help you become more comfortable in your own skin. Love who you are and never apologize for it.

Blessed Be

Answer 4

get real.