why am i so god damned depressed?

Question

i mean, i never get depressed, i mean yeah i get sad every now and then, but never depressed, also im perfectly stress free, i have a great life. besides the fact that they're fireing all the teachers at my school just like my principle did in middle school!

i mean, i never get depressed, i mean yeah i get sad every now and then, but never depressed, also im perfectly stress free, i have a great life. besides the fact that they're fireing all the teachers at my school just like my principle did in middle school!

1. im 15
2. im a guy
3. im in high school

one more thing. please dont use the "lords punishing me" thing, that kind of makes it worse

oh i have one more thing. why is it and it only works with beatles song, but when i hear certain songs like yesterday, let it be and some others make sad and then all the jumpy songs like helter skelter and i am the walrus make me happy.
i just notticed this right now when i was listening to the cd my girlfriend gave me.

im no longer depressed as earlier since i started to hear the cd i only heard the fast jumpy songs. any explinations?

Answer 1

Turn to Jesus, He can help.

These hotlines can help you too:

HELP WITH MENTAL PROBLEMS

Mental Health Info Source 1-800-447-4474 Mental Health Resources and Information

National Institute of Mental Health 1-888-ANXIETY Mental Health Resources and Information

SUICIDE PREVENTION

Suicide & Crisis Hotline [phone] Help for Troubled Teens

National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention

SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO

Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors

Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens

Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens

VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500

Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline

National Crisis Line 1-800-334-4357 Crisis Help Line

National Youth Crisis Hotline [phone] Youth Crisis Hotline

Answer 2

Dear Brother,

Really you have no problem at all. You have an ability to watch things closely. I am sure you have a good IQ.

What is the problem is, you always looking things through you own eye. Your are very sweet and have a sympathy to others life forms. Try to look things from various angles.

Try to analysis three things, when ever you become sad.

1. What make me sad? if there is an answer. try for Q. 2 or leave it and continue your activity.

2. Why that make me sad? there must be an answer. try for Q.3

3. Is that is a serious reason to be sad, if yes,

a) think, Is their any fault from you side (you must think it with your soul) if yes you can correct it.

b) if it is not you fault. Don't be sad, seriously think is there any remedy.

There is so many things in this world which we can do nothing. There is so many things in this world which you can do something.

A genius know what to do, A wise man know how to do.

When I look into your question. I came to know you are a genius, wise and a gentle man.

Don't be sad, Don't be sad. Take your life as it is.

Take this Quote of Swami Vivekanandaji,

When ever I pray to God for Strenght
He give me Challenges to face.

Regards

Madhu S
Kerala India
9947032716

Answer 3

Maybe it is God's punishment for blasphemy? Seriously tho, it could be a chemical imbalance or depending on your age or gender it could very possibly be hormones. If you are depressed and have no reason to be and it lasts more than a couple of days you should definitely check with your dr. It sounds like you are experiencing anxiety about the changes in your school. Changes in our environment and not knowing what the future holds can bring on depression and anxiety. Does any sort of anxiety or depression run in your family? Are you in high school? I had a lot of depression in high school due to hormones and now I get depressed for no reason for a few days each month..but I'm a girl and I know the reason why. Hope you feel better! And stop using GD!

Answer 4

It could potentially be genetics or hormones causing your depression. Some people are just very prone to developing depression and it doesn't matter how well your life is going. Depression doesn't care about your age, gender or social economic status...

I would suggest if the depression lasts longer than a few weeks that you confide in your parents if you feel you can. See if they will help you get some professional help. Maybe you could benefit from therapy or even if you just start talking to the school guidance counselor. They can help explain all about how depression works and maybe see if there are any underlying reasons why you are depressed aside from a potential genetic vulnerability.

Good luck...

Answer 5

How old are you sweetie? Are you in high school? Maybe you are going through a phase that will hopefully end soon. Over 50% of teenagers report their depression. Its not ok to suffer with depression. You should talk to a counselor or someone who can get you on some medication. Its totally confidential and no one will know. Believe me you will feel better. Depression will take over you life if you let it. You need to stop it while you are realizing how depressed you are and get it under control while you can.

Answer 6

Human bodies are smart, and they slow us down with depression so we can evaluate our lives.
Also, the word depression gives you a clue about what it's doing: the lows carve out a "depression" in you, an empty space for wisdom to fill in.

So it's OK if you're not crippled. Don't be too quick to take pills... but respect illnesses, which can cause depression without reason.

Answer 7

u mentioned that u felt depressed or happy depending on songs? i am kinda like that... i feel the emotions around me.... if the mood becomes depressing then i become depressed.... if someone is angry or sad... i feel that too.... it may be just a stage.. u could have anxiety...
sorry if i wasn't any help... but do know that u are never alone... there is always some one who has similar problems... talk to ppl... keep urself busy... it may just help

Answer 8

You like everyone needs happiness. See site below which will teach you about yourself and how to be happier. They do not teach this in school so that is why you are depressed since you do not know how to be happier.

http://www.phifoundation.org/happiness.html

Answer 9

I went through the same experience when i was at your age. It's normal it's just a phase...keep yourself busy all the time... look into martial arts that help me a lot or join a gym.

Answer 10

Age. You are trying to figure it all out. Hormones as well, (yes, guys have them too). Hopefully you have not experimented with any kind of drugs because that could have some side effects . . .Hang in there kid . . .You'll be fine!