2007-01-10 09:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should tell her, u should be honest with her
it is better than she discovers this from someone else or discovers it after getting marry
2007-01-10 10:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... was it Jimmy Hoffa?
I am assuming you are not a violent person at this point in your life; if you are seek professional help before you make more mistakes like that.
You have in front of you a choice between trust/honesty and a past that can very well come back to haunt you.
Everyone is capable of taking a person's life (self defense, protecting your family, accident, etc). If this is the case you may find some sympathy. If the reason is darker in nature chances are you will not find any sympathy.
It is your choice, but one point to consider is that if you tell her and at some point you are caught, you may doubt her even if she had nothing to do with it.
That situation is still haunting you and will continue to do so. Besides telling or not telling her make it a purpose of your life to seek forgiveness from God and to compensate for that which you took away.
2007-01-10 10:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, my propose to everybody isn't to make any significant judgements once you're so disillusioned you won't be able to imagine immediately, and that i imagine this qualifies. obviously you're devastated, everybody might want to be in this problem. i'm so sorry you got here upon her infidelity this way. with slightly of success you've a chum or close chum you and your son can flow stay with for an afternoon or 3 (or better) till you could cool down adequate to imagine rationally. do not search for suggestion from from her till you could benefit this gently. turn the stupid cellular telephone off if it really is what it takes. Please don'tchronic everywhere at the same time as you're so disillusioned that you almost get right into a damage! Have someone p.c.. you up in case you want them to. today, you want to sit back down, both for your self and on your son. once you've calmed down a touch (not once you're doing hurting, yet once you're literally not blindingly offended), you'd be in a extraordinarily solid position that none human beings would ought to inform you what you should do, you'll understand what you should do. even although you've a son mutually (and prefer someone observed, how did you recognize he's yours now?), i could not spend something of my existence with someone who couldn't also be truthful to me earlier we were married. you won't be able to spend something of your existence with someone you do not trust. i'm so so so sorry this has surpassed off to you.
2016-12-02 02:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, cause u wouldnt want ur fiancee to find out later in life without u telling em. that would lead to disaster..
2007-01-10 10:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only tell him if you are wanted by any officials of the FBI or the RCMP
Funny question!!!
You should watch that show call "prison break"...it may help you in your future...
2007-01-10 10:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you serious? Maybe you should tell the police first...
2007-01-10 10:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should tell the police
2007-01-10 10:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THE BEST THING TO DO IS CALL 911 AND TELL THEM THEY WILL HANDLE THE REST!! HAVE FUN!!
2007-01-10 10:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by NONE OF UR BIZ!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and you proably shouldnt be posting your confession on here either. hello FBI?
2007-01-10 10:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Real Genius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're joking right?
2007-01-10 10:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋