As a guy im wondering Is love something that hits us so easily we are all softies no matter how we are percieved or does anyone actually have any idea of what love is?
I say this because I was thinking you hear and see on here for example and chat shows of these stories of cheating etc and how for example the woman says "I loved him so much" and the chat show host says "how long were you together" and the response is something like "5 months" and we have had a kid together and now he has gone and left me?
does anyone know what love is anymore?
did anyone ever know what is love?
and do we feel in love just when we feel comfy with someone?
2007-01-10 09:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lust is when you WANT to love someone, but for whatever reason, scientifically or emotionally, it will never really work.
Love is when you NEED someone, everytime you want to tell that person you love them and the reasons why you love them so much, your words just stay stuck in your mouth because you can't describe what you feel for them.
Feelings of love is spoken with the heart, not the mind. Therefore love is indescribable.
People mistake lust for love because of society today, and pressure within everyone to fall in love. People need to realise that love won't come to you at the click of the finger, and you can't choose who you want to love, because when i said scientifically, apparently humans are attracted through odor smells, like dogs, same process, cept we don't actually sniff each other, we just sence the smell without actually physically realising. And if your odor smell isn't matching theirs, then theres a proven chance that its not going to work.
Theres no specific time for when you officially fall in love, but if you really do love each other, then you wouldn't split up in the first place.
"Love cannot be broken. You can bend it, twist it, but if it is true it will rise again"
2007-01-10 10:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Those three words are said too often and also not enough!!!
Women fall quicker but men fall harder. It's a known fact! You can only know love if oyu have experienced it but so many people that think they have . . really haven't so ending up in so many people trying to defy love that know one knows what is true and what isn't. If the thought even crosed my mind that i would ever cheat on my partner i would have to leave them because i obviously shouldn't be with them if i can even think about being with someone else and becasue i wouldn't want to put the person i care about the most through that sort of pain. I ave too much respect for them and myself for that matter.
2007-01-10 10:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by nat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lust is entirely actual - you want to have sex with this human being, grope this human being. All body stuff. Love is emotional - definite, there are factors of lust in love yet for the most section it is desirous to be with that human being, talk with that human being, cuddle, and to stay with them continuously. tl;dr Lust leaves once you benefit some kilos, love continues to be and asks in case you want cake.
2016-12-02 02:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is when u think of her everytime if shes okay, is she doing fine, is she take her meal on the right time everything for her good and you plan ur future with her. Love is when you feel hurt sometimes and if She CAN HURT YOU...ofcourse not physically but emotionally..
Lust is when u think of her too but with a big difference..... is she good in bed..what is her vital stat?? what she can do in bed. position she like.. can she do this..?? can she do that...?
Lust is when you feel hurt too ... when ur not done yet and she quit..
Just a simple as that.. so when you think of her.. what comes first in your mind???
just remember lust fade but love CAN stay forever if you know how to take care of it...
2007-01-10 11:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you truly love someone you always consider their feelings and you don't have to constantly get just what you want to be happy. You should be happy for your partner when things go her way. Lust is when you never consider her feelings and the only reason you are with her is because you find her sexually attractive.
2007-01-10 10:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mandee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lust never lasts only love can, to me loving someone don't come easy you have to fancy them and get to know them well and you will find there are things that you don't like only they don't make any difference as we are all not perfect, it is a great feeling to be held and cuddled and to feel safe in that persons arms and knowing in your heart that they wouldn't cheat on you and when you hear people say it was love at first sight I don't think so how can you love what you don't know
2007-01-10 10:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Lots of people get the two mixed up - esp those who are on the chat shows!!!!
Lust is pure sex - love is emotional sex
2007-01-10 10:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by Me xx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is when you feel you can't live without the person, lust is only sexual desires.
2007-01-10 11:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is when your feelings for that person are so strong you just want to be with them for the rest of your life. you want to share your life with them, you can talk to them, trust them, be physical with them, adore them no matter if they are not fantastic looking.its when you want to share everything with them, have a family with them.love is when you miss them and want to be there for them in sickness and in health.lust is such a strong sexy word and action.there is no love in lust but there is lust in love!
2007-01-10 10:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by soft 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can love your family and friends - and lust over someone you can't have e.g. a popstar, filmstar.
When lust becomes reality it turns honest people into cheaters and marriage wreckers.
2007-01-10 10:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Aslan, reborn 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋