i need help planning a city hall wedding...?

Question

ok first off i am the maid of honor. ok they are getting married at city hall but they still want it to be kinda nice. so i thanks to my bestfriend the bride. get ot plan the majority of this wedding.I thought maybe we (me the maid of honor and the 2 bridesmaids) could where pink sundress.(june 16th wedding date, in cali) and she could wear a white sundress. does that sound good or bad to any of you ? now what the bride wants is to decorate naughty cookies and get drunk off smirnoff twisters. but i think we need soemthing a littel more A) girly and B) traditional. i was thinking of a day at a spa mind you this a friday till sunday bacholerette party one month b4 wedding cuase thats when the bride wants it. so i figure spa day then cookies and drinking and a day of shopping or something. so far the bride has loved all of my ideas but i'm running out ideas. so any ideas or help fro many oen woudl be much apreciated form this frazzled M.O.H.

Answer 1

Before you go through all this planning you'd better check with the judge & city hall. Most times they limit the guests, bridal party, etc.

If you decide to have a wedding with all the trimmings, you can do something like this at a nearby park or garden or someone's home.
To find an officiant that will perform the ceremony, type into your search engine your city, state & wedding officiant (no 's' on the end) You should have a few to choose from. Judges can only marry in their jurisdiction. Ministers can cross state & county lines.

Answer 2

i think of that your loved ones is being stupid for not recognizing the undeniable fact which you're legally married, on account that to procure married in a civil ceremony instead of in a church. in this economic gadget, I constantly think of this is ridiculous to objective to handle to pay for a super wedding ceremony and reception, yet exceedingly if the couple is already married and has been for particularly a while. in the adventure that your loved ones nevertheless refuses to properly known the marriage, in keeping with possibility you will desire to look into an fairly small ceremony the place your clergy guy or woman would desire to bless the marriage interior the church. i understand Catholic church homes will try this, and that i assume different religions have something comparable the place they formally comprehend the union in a lots smaller, much less tricky ceremony. Then perhaps you may bypass all the high priced stuff that looks inflicting all the kinfolk drama and in simple terms bypass out for a advantageous celebratory dinner someplace advantageous afterwards.