Ok so I went out with this guy and we broke up I still have so much feelings for him and its all bottled up inside!!! Then one of my Best Friends comes along and breaks up with her boyfriend and asks my ex out its hard for me because I like him soooo much I don't know what to do I really just need help to know what to do right!!! So please help!!!
2007-01-10 09:21:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she is your best friend and she knew then she wouldnt go out with him
but if she didnt know then theres not really any thing you can do about it
sorry
2007-01-10 09:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she's not your best friend. Why would she do that in the first place. No real friend would go out with an ex that you really like. Another thing is there's nothing you can do now. You can't stop them from going out, it would be wise just to leave them alone. If it's meant to be you'll be together, if not you'll find someone else. Don't stress yourself. Good Luck!
2007-01-10 17:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyedgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to me....let alone the guy i lost my virginity too lol sorry TMI! You just need to leave them both alone. I was mad at them for a loooong time even though it never went any further than just kissing. Now, ive forgiven but ill never forget. Thats why things have never been the same between any of us. Id rather just be cool but hey i dont have to hang out with you anymore. Suck it up girl your better than that. Its hard just stay close to the REAL freinds you have.
2007-01-10 18:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Ambersgettingmarried 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all. This girl is your best friend?? right? well if she is she sould have known that u still liked him (if she did know then she might back off.) but anyways mayb you should tell your friend! IF SHE IS a TRUE friend then she will tell him gently (hopefully) and break off the realasionship with him. BUT she might be DEPPLY in luv w/ him. so u can have two coices if this happens. break up with her or forget him guys arent worth fighting over!
2007-01-10 17:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by ilovebrooks3112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two of you broke up. as much as it sucks, there's nothing that you can do about it. you just have to let him go and realize that someone better will come along.
if it hurts you that the two of them are together, then ask her not to talk about him to you because it bothers you.
and def. don't try to make things work by hanging out with the two of them as a group thing, that'll only hurt you even more.
2007-01-10 17:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a best friend if she's dating you ex knowing you still have feelings for him. So....make that clarification. Let her know that you still have feelings for him. Then, move on. Your best friend is displaying typical behavior of an insecure female...don't take it to heart. Be the better person and ditch them both.
2007-01-10 18:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Petra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you still have feelings for him and then let her decide what to do then. You might also want to inform him that you still have feelings for him and see how he reacts, if it's not a good way, then find a healthy way of getting over him, but if your friend uis really a friend she wouldn't date him knowing that you still have feelings for him.
2007-01-10 17:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ill help u.(or try too)haha
listen be the better person and let him go
i know exactly how u feel,i asked my friend tif she would go out with my one ex and she said ye!i was really annoyed because i really liked him still.soo just let hem go 4 all yall's sakes.K?
it will be hard and she should have asked u first and thats what i have done but u never know
~hope ur ok~dont freak out with ur friend and he has odviously move on away from u 4 ur friend~freak out at him!no dont>just let it go
2007-01-10 17:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jewlz s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget your ex its history to him so why shouldn't it be for you? I bet there is a guy out there that will stay with u and never date your best friend
2007-01-10 17:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this girl is your friend i think when she heard you 2 broke up then she caused trouble or broke up with her boyfriend cause she liked your man all along just a guess.
2007-01-10 18:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋