I wrote a question earlier about thinking that my partner is cheating on me. He told me he plays soccer till about midnight every saturday but its just like a drop in to practice cause he is on a team. Well since he started telling me this, I always thought he was lieing because who would play soccer till that late. Well anyways I ended up going to his soccer website and found the indoor arena and checked the times and they are closed on saturday evenings, so I phoned just to make sure and she said there is no drop in soccer practices on saturdays because leagues are playing? Does that mean he is playing because he is on a team? or he is totally lieing to me? I dont know what to do cause whenever I bring this up to him he gets all mad at me.
2007-01-10 09:19:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't have trust in your relationship then you don't have a relationship.Without trust and respect you have nothing.
2007-01-10 09:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you can come to watch his practice one saturday evening. If he says no and tries to make an excuse don't get mad act clueless then if all else fails tell him that you think he is cheating and explain why. The only surefire way to know is to confront him... or stalk him to 'practice' :) Good luck
2007-01-10 09:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is pretty clear that he is lying to you.
I don't know what your resources are like, but casually ask him early in the week if he is going to play soccer the coming saturday. If he says yes, immediately contract with a private detective to follow him. It will cost you about 200-300 dollars.
2007-01-10 09:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the afternoon of the night(s) in question tie one of his shoe laces in a specific way, for example a granny knot or slip it out of the first few eyes, something that will render it unusable without fixing. See if it comes home the same way.
If something doesn't feel right it proably isn't.
This is only true if you are not constantly insecure about yourself.
2007-01-10 09:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by harPOON capt uss TANG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On Saturday night go to the arena and see for yourself.
2007-01-10 09:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he tell you something that is not possible, he lied
but maybe he lied for something else (seeing his friends and drinking... or else)
but it clearly seems to be a lie, and as he get mad when you talk about it i might thought that there is a problem...
try to know what relly happen and see
2007-01-10 09:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by naindesign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is lying to me... tell him you need to have a serious talk with him and then ask him and when he gets mad, that's how you should know he is lying. why would get mad about you asking him that question if he is not hiding anything?
2007-01-10 09:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely lying to you. Maybe he have a gambling problem or cheating on you for sure. anyhow, you better confront him or get help by calling cheaters. good luck.
2007-01-10 09:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would drop in the practice and because there isnt one when he comes home i would tell him just that i dropped in on your practice you played real good tonight !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and see what he has to say now.
2007-01-10 10:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to love you have to trust and be trusted
if u cannot trust him then leave him so that u can stop troubling urself and when he is a good mood sit him down and talk this case over bye.
2007-01-10 09:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by pj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋