is a total nutcase! she even practises voodoo, but i don't believe in that. she never liked me from the start and lied about me to my hubby... he and i are currently seperated.. he wants to get back with me, but i've moved on! he never believed me when i told him about his mother and now he does, but i still believe he's a moma's boy! anyway she's at war with me now.. sending me emails saying i will oose and that i don't wanna be on her bad side.. this is part of my reply:
FURTHERMORE.. if you had a life you wouldn't be all up in our relationship.. i guess misery loves company, hey??/
the next time you try to work on me... just remember... NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER
what do you guys think i should do about this witch?? mature answers only and thanx
2007-01-10 09:19:00 · 15 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Change your email address, but keep everything she's sent you. If she keeps harassing you, as in leaving messages on your voicemail/answering machine, or going to your new house, then report it to the police and file for a restraining order. Whatever you do, DON'T answer her emails/phone calls. You are only fanning the fire, so to speak. If no longer want to have contact with her or her son, then tell him you've moved on and do so. Get a divorce, whatever you need to do to get her and her son out of your life.
Don't throw anything away that she sends you, and get an attorney for the divorce. Her emails may help your case. (I don't know this for sure, but it wouldn't hurt to keep everything just in case)
For a divorce - definitely get an attorney. Do NOT do it by yourself, especially since your spouse and ex mother in law sounds like they can and will make things difficult for you. My husband divorced his xwife by doing it himself, and paid (literally) for it for many years - so as my lawyer told me - hire a divorce lawyer and get it done right, otherwise you'll end up paying more in the long run then a lawyer would cost.
2007-01-10 09:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by nokhada5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this woman is threatening you, so I would report it to your Internet provider and the police. By the way, there is a law in the US that says it is illegal from people to harass, threaten, and stalk people using any means of communication, and that includes the Internet. If you are not from the US, I am sure there are similar laws in other countries. If she sends you another threatening email I would calmly and curtly email her back and say you will report her to the police next time. This way she knows her behavior is not welcomed and you plan on dealing with it accordingly. Save all of the emails she has sent you in case you need to show anyone what this lady is up too.
As for her witchcraft, she cannot touch you because you do not believe she is powerful enough to do so. It sounds like this woman thrives off negative energy, so I would just say a prayer to your higher power (whatever that may be) to protect you from all dark/negative elements in your life. If you do not believe in prayer you could always do yoga or something soothing that will help to bring you peace in this situation.
Also, I am glad you have decided to never get back together with your ex because they say that "the apple does not fall far from the tree." In other words, you never know if your ex would start acting like her one day in the future. Good luck and I hope you can get this lady to go away and stop bothering you.
2007-01-10 09:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know the situation and you have married before to her son. Things are not going to get any better. Either you accept the fact that she a nuthead and marry him again or go on with your life and find other happiness. I'm sure there are lots of people out there that would make you equally happy or more. good luck.
2007-01-10 09:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by revolou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you and your hubby are not going to be getting back together I see no need for you to do anything. Ignore her. Block her emails from reaching your inbox. Change phone number, etc. She is trying to scare you if you do not respond to her in any way she will tire of trying to toy with you when she receives no pay off of you getting upset and angry.
2007-01-10 09:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can you block her emails so they go straight into your bulk folder? If you're not with your husband any more you don't have to put up with listening to her crap. Change your number, ignore letters, change your cell. Just stop listening, and if she doesn't stop get a restraining order as a last resort. Whatever you do don't react or respond.
2007-01-10 09:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....most men are momma's boy.....but if he really loves you he has to put on the side his mom....a relation is between 2 not 3...and try to live in peace with your mother-in-law.....if you love him...you have to ignore her..because she is going to be his mother forever. you can't change that...try to talk to her and if she doesn't want to..ok you tried at least....but you could tell him that he needs to trust you..if he wants to get back with you he has to work hard and have some kind of agreement with him regarding his mom...and send her an email telling her...good luck with your life and you don't want bad things for her and all that kind of ****......good luck for you..
2007-01-10 09:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by abril b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest solution is to ignore her. Change your email, phone, address if you have to. If it gets worse then call the cops because she is harassing you. The simplest way to rid yourself of someone.
2007-01-12 03:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have already answered that question.
You said you have moved on, so do so!
The more you respond the more she will continue to attempt to get attention.
be the bigger person, move on before she brings you down.
2007-01-10 09:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a doll that resembles her and have needles stuck into it everywhere. Send along a note that reads: "And your point is?"
2007-01-10 09:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ignore her and block her from e-mailing you?
my m-i-l thinks she's too good to even acknowledge that me or my children even exist. ( i can tell you honestly!! it doesn't hurt my feelings at all.) i am glad she is not in my life.
2007-01-10 09:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋