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am i pregnant?help..?

my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex the day after my menstration,it was just so short and he did not come to me(did not ejaculates inside me)..im expecting my period nxt week..i dont have any symptoms except for my breast..i took 4 preg test already..all negative..the last pt i took was 3 weeks after i had sex.. can i get easily pregnant on their first time?with the considerations above??i read an article that it takes several month to get pregnant..
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2007-01-10 09:13:45 · 32 answers · asked by doodledoo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

32 answers

Oh, for pete's sake! Really, if you don't know, you shouldn't be having sex.

Would you go parachuting without finding out all about it before you went? No, of course you wouldn't...but for some reason, it's okay for you to have sex without understanding the repercussions.

Yes, OF COURSE you can get pregnant your first time. In fact, you can get pregnant the first time, even if he didn't ejaculate inside you, because there can be sperm in the pre-ejaculatory fluid. Sometimes, it CAN take more than once to get pregnant, but there are no guarantees.

If you had just finished your period, it's very unlikely that you DID get pregnant.

Please, please, I beg of you...Go to a doctor and find out the facts about sex and pregnancy before you do it again. It's not just an inconvenience, by the way, it's a HUMAN LIFE. Please take it as seriously as you would a diagnosis of cancer. Really.

2007-01-10 09:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 2 0

1.) Don't have unprotected sex.

2.) No ejaculation, no missed period = I wouldn't worry too much. Wait and see what happens with your period.

3.) That said, there are pregnancy tests that can provide a pos/neg result prior to the first missed period. Unless you're using one of those, the test results you've seen so far are pretty useless.

4.) Get an STD screen. Seriously. Go to planned parenthood, or whatever is available in your community and tell them what happened. Make up a name to give them if you're embarrassed, but take care of yourself.

5.) Yes, an STD screen, even if he didn't ejaculate. There are a suprising number of unpleasant (and for the most part, treatable) diseases you can pick up just genital contact, no ejaculation required.

Good luck.

2007-01-10 09:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by NotTooSmart 1 · 0 0

A girl in my graduating class got pregnant the night she lost her virginity.
The best way to prevent an unwanted pregnancy is to not have sex.
No form of birth control is 100% effective against preventing pregnancy but maybe birth control is something you should look into ... it's better than no protection.
Be more careful.
Also, it doesn't matter if your boyfriend doesn't ejaculate into you. There is sperm in the pre- c u m, so there's always a chance.
If your period is late in one week, take a pregnancy test. A pregnancy test will most likely not be accurate until a week after your missed period.
Until then, try not to stress yourself out over it because stress can make your period late.

2007-01-10 09:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 5 · 1 0

Yes you can get pregnate on the first time. Whether or not he ejaculates inside you doesn't matter, it's the preejaculation that usually gets you pregnate. Most pregnacy tests won't show positive until the first day of your missed pregnancy. So I would just wait until your start day to try again. You can get pregnate while you are menstrating, if you have unprotected sex you can get pregnate. It doesn't what time of the monthy it is, whether it's your first time or your hundrenth, whether or not you dooche afterwards. The only way to not get pregnate is to use a condome. And sometimes that doesn't work.

2007-01-10 09:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by breezymourn 3 · 0 0

It is unlikely becuase most women ovulate in the middle of their cycles, but it could happen. You really do need to be careful not to get pregnant until you are ready to deal with having a baby come the worst of possibilities. If you are planning on having sex again you need to get on some form of birth control, or even better use a condom and protect yourself against STDs. About the test, take another one the day you miss your period and another 2 weeks later. Hope you get the result you wish for.

2007-01-10 09:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by kellie_new_mom25 2 · 0 1

It is highly unlikely that you could be pregnant. Usually women do not ovulate the week befor and week after menstruation. This means there are no eggs to fertilize. Also if your boyfriend did not ejeculate inside you then it makes the possiblility totally inprobable.If you have done pregnancy tests and they are negative this also means you are not pregnant.

In future however use protection. This will protect you from all kinds of nasty diseases aswell as getting pregnant.

I am sorry that your first time was short.

2007-01-10 09:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by TakeNoticeNow 3 · 0 2

Probably not. You need to be ovulating to get pregnant and you would have NOT done that the day after your period. Besides that, even if you were, it would be too soon to test until you are late for accurate results.

Oh, and yes, you can get pregnant the first time.

2007-01-10 09:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0 1

i have always been told if a test is positive it is positive and if a test is negative it could still be positive. the only thing i can tell you to do is wait and see if you miss your period. wait about a week after your period or missed period and take another test. for best results go to a clinic to get the test done

2007-01-10 09:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by COLETTA L 1 · 0 0

Yes you can get pregnant your first time, even if he doesn't ejaculate inside of you there is pre-ejaculation. Wait until you're late to start worrying, because stress can make your period late too. Good luck.

2007-01-10 09:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by wendylotr 3 · 3 0

YES YOU CAN. You can get pregnant The FIRST TIME and anytime thereafter that you have SEX. You really should consider your sources better... Here is a good one.

2007-01-10 09:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 4 · 0 0

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