My friend Jahnny - ( girl ), wants to go out with a total JERK! She won't take my advice to say NO. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-10 09:10:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her screw up her own life don't let her bad decision make you feel guilty. You tried your best to warn her, the only way to make her realize that he is a jerk is too have her experience his jerkiness firsthand. :) Good luck
2007-01-10 09:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her plenty of rope to hang herself with and leave her be.
She either doesn't care or wants to make herself a victim so she can get more attention that way.
Ever sit on the bank and have a friend who continually tries to drown herself and ignores you every time you throw the life preserver out but continues to scream for help?
It gets old after a while.
2007-01-10 09:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make her own mistakes. It's not your life. She won't last long and when she is hurt tell her NEXT Time she may listen and not get hurt. But, unless the guy is physically going to abuse her than just be her friend as usual.
2007-01-10 09:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Shyeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is try and talk her out of it. Unfortunately some people especially teenagers think they know everything and will not listen to no one. They just have to learn for themselves and eventually they will start paying more attention to what others opinions are after they get burned a few times.
2007-01-10 09:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend you love her and you want her to be safe. Offer your cell phone and some money so she can take him out and stay home for the call after the date. Other wise she's pushing your hot buttons... so other than staying cool, quiet and non-chelant be calm and leave it in Gods hands.
2007-01-10 09:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Steve1VA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes not going to listen to you that relax and see what she does. If he IS a phyco, then she will realize it sooner or later and break up with him. But until then, dont keep complaining about him. Just try and dont talk about him if thats best. Complain in little bits and maybe she'll finnally understand.
2007-01-10 09:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by miseryxlane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her make her own mistakes if she won't listen to you... And if you are there to pick up the pieces of he breaks up with her, be there for her and don't tell her " i told you soo" be the bigger person...
Good Luck... hope your wrong about this guy..
2007-01-10 09:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by devilsadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her do what she wants ur not her mom and even if you where she would not care any ways so just back and see it all fall apart in 2 weeks
2007-01-10 09:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by bpitheusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really as bad as you think, get a business card from a battered women's shelter and give it to her in case she needs it.
If things get scary, tell your mom. And hope your friend forgives you.
2007-01-10 09:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by luckychicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do her thing just tell her what you feel but don't tell her she can't do it...you're not her mother, and don't have rules for your freinds,not everybody thinks alike, you know? Just tell her how you feel and be there for her when she falls on her face and needs a friend...good luck God bless!!!!
2007-01-10 09:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋