people, help me out here! what is the best way to convince my girlfrd to have s** with me? we've been datin for more than 8 months now and her answer is still no even though she tells me she love me. so i been thinkin up ways to convince her and so far no of them works. you guys have any suggestions??
2007-01-10 08:57:44 · 27 answers · asked by scott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I'll give you advice, but only if YOU promise that you're not just using her and that you really love her. Promise? Okay...The reason she might be hesitating could be plenty of things. She might be concerned about her weight or what she looks like without clothes on. She might be a firm believer that she should wait until marriage. She might be questioning your love for her. Or, maybe she's just scared! Let her know (without making it sound like your a horny freak) that you want to have sex with her because you love her, and that you would never hurt her. Tell her you think she's beautiful, and she doesn't need to be scared, if that's why. If by some chance NONE of these are it, just ask her why. (politely and like you really care, please) Good Luck! I hope you get "some!"
P.S-could you please make this a best answer, because I'm low on those...thanks!
2007-01-10 09:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by jordpr_93 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love this girl. Then don't try to talk her into doing it, because it will only make her turn away from you. What you should do is to show your love and affection to her in other ways. And you can be intimate with her without going all the way! And you need to let her know that you truly love her, and to make her feel secure in your relationship. When she's ready, you will both experience a magical moment together!
2007-01-10 18:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Peter 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG.. leave her alone, she obvisously has morals and values, don't mess with them.
Maybe she really does love you, but doesn't want to have sex with you.. Sex is not LOVE..
Do you love her? Do you respect her? Then back off.
Ok, think for one quick minute.. if this were your daughter would you really want some sex crazed fool trying to pressure her into having sex? My guess is NO...
Your girlfriend is someone's daughter.. sounds to me like she is on the right track.. it's you my friend that has gone off the beaten path..
Grow up and like a man.. when the time is right for her, and if you are indeed the right man, things will fall into place.
2007-01-10 17:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
eugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u cant make anyone do it wit u!!and how old are u!!i cant believe how shalow guys can be!!u need to let her go and if ur going to do anything DO NoT ASK HER ABOuT it!!there is ur 1ST mistake.and u have to wait till the time is right it might come it might not!u never know if she was ever sexually abused or if she is afraid of std's or just gossed out by the thought of it. Com on be sensable dude. she could have just gotten out of a bad relationship or something. Just come on. PLEASE!give the poor girl a chance to get her priorties lined up.
~hope things go Oak and if not there are other fish in the sea!jk
o and the dude who put in the comment right above mine is ssoooooooo right!listen to him!i beg u!
2007-01-10 17:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jewlz s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love your girlfriend then respect the fact she isnt ready to have sex with you. This is something she has strong feelings about and you should take pride in the fact your with a girl that thinks so highly of herself as to NOT sleep with just anybody. IF and when the time is right, she'll let you know.
2007-01-10 17:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to get a girl to have sex with you is to worry less about getting yourself off and more about what she would want. And considering she's gone 8 months and you still havent had sex yet, she probably doesn't feel confident about your feelings towards her. You should sit down and tell her how you feel about her and what you expect from her in your future together.
2007-01-10 17:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Kristi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dude you are a piece!!! she tell YOU when SHES ready..you can love someone with out sex!! sounds like shes a nice girl whom which you dont deserve..i hope she comes to her senses and kicks you to the curb!!! grow up monkey boy
2007-01-10 17:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a surefire way that works every time.
Will you marry me?
If you are not in a position to get married, or if you are not old enough, plan on waiting until you are.
2007-01-10 17:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you're just like every other guy in this world and have one thing on your mind and that's getting into a girls pants.. if You loved her you would give her time and let her do it when she wants to and bring it up herself instead of you taunting her about it and trying to pressure and push her into it..
2007-01-10 17:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by uhohyoureugly 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well love has nothing to do with sex,so dont push that on her.
if her answer is no then its no.
if u love her u should stay with her for that,its not about sex.u cant ask for it u both should know when ur going to do it without asking
2007-01-10 17:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by devries58 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋