he cheated?

Question

we have bin together for 3 years and we have a baby together we where going threw a rough patch and he went to dinner with anouther girl and then went to the bar with her and made out with this chick. grrr. but then he stoped. he said it was because he loved me to much and it made him sick to be with anouther girl and he would never do it again. because he was drunk. "he never drinks" but this is keeping me away all night and i have a baby to take care of. what do i do. forgive and not forget or just dump him, or go compleaty anal and kick his azz and then her's. i'm heart broken help

when i confonted him about it he dump me. then after when i ask him why he dump me hi said i could do so much better then him.

Answer 1

Not to defend him, but go easy on him. rough patches are hard and sometimes people do supid things. It's an odd thing, but when alcohol is involved, it makes the hard times feel worse and the women seem much better. but to be honest if he says he loves you and shows it and he is truly is sorry for what happened, he means it. If your relationship is strong, loving and supportive I think it could work. He should not do it again, if he does then dump him. hope this helps.

Answer 2

Well, technically what he did, ya, cheating, but ask him if he stopped her or the other way around! If he stopped her then he realized his mistake, late but noble. If she stopped him dump his *** cause he'll take the next thing walking down the street. Forgiving him is up to you. Are you willing to forgive him? Do you think you could move past this? Are you better off without him? It has to be one or the other though. Either forgive him and forget about it (e.i. not using it in future fights against him) or, leave him. Tell him he messed up his one chance and never look back. Tough situation, but think clearly.

Answer 3

takes time trust me on this.
if u really love him just give it a chance to settle down,
either way give it time before you make any plans, theres nothing worse than deciding u do want him after all and having to beg
as for forgiving and forgetting....forgiving is always possible , but make sure you know exactly what ur forgiving him for the details may hurt, but in the long run its less painful to find out now rather than 5 years down the line.
work on forgiving, it will be worth it for your baby, forgetting comes with time

Answer 4

I think you guys need to work this out. normally I would 't say this but you guys have a child together and you guys have try things out...I 'm not saying to cut him some slack but what happens the next time you guys get into a fight is that an excuse to make out with another girl...You need to talk to him.. Not everybody is the same If you feel after talking to him that you could trust him you guys should try to work things out If not try to be civil to each other for your kid...
Don't let his azz of the hook.. though