I'm young but im in love with this amazing guy,
and hes proved to me that he loves me for who I am.
Its long distance and his mom wont let us talk on the phone or over the computer, let alone see him at all.
becuse she thinks that im a "bad girl" and im not
hes talked to her and we were allowed to talk for awhile,
but then out of no where he said that he couldnt talk anymore.
I cried for days and we texted back and forth for a little while but even now thoes have stopped, I love him so much I would do anything just to be with him any ideas?
2007-01-10 08:55:17 · 27 answers · asked by Hannah W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you are going through and i know how much pain you are in because i went through the same thing and honestly there is nothing you can do except for just wait out the hurt and pain as hard as it may seem now it will be easier but not for a long while, you can only just hope that sometime in the future when you are older and you guys are able to be together that you may be able to be with him then. but it isn't going to be easy and it is gonna hurt everyday until after awhile it gets a little less and less, i know this isn't good news but thats all you can do, parents do have the authority.
but you could try and sit down with just his mom and have a heart to heart conversation with her and ask her for one chance to just prove yourself.
e mail me if you need anything or want to talk- good luck and i'm so sorry
2007-01-10 09:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mothers and their son's have amazing connections.... I'm not saying that she knows best... but what she's saying will always influence him. No matter what the age. Mother-in-laws or even mothers of a boyfriend can make life really crappy. If your still young, which it sounds like you might be, you might should let this one go anyway or just give it some time and see what happens with the mom. The more she feels pressured the more she'll want you to stay away!
2007-01-10 09:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by jrdk77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... how old are the two of you? If you're over 18, there is no reason his mom should make him do anything. Secondly, think about what has made his mother think that you're such a bad person. If you are under 18 ask your mom to talk to his mom, if you're over 18 than talk to her yourself. More than likely his mom is just being overprotective. Lastly, make sure to stay calm and mature about handling this situation because being angry or impatient will only give this guy's mom more ammo. Good luck!
2007-01-10 09:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is happening to me, well if you go to school say that you have an afterschool program and tell him to meet you some place and a time, tell him to do the same thing to tell his mom that he has an afterschool program..........thats what I did
But if ya are old enough I dont think anybody can stop it
Trust me if he really loves you he will find a way to contact you
Or like what Iam planning to do is confront my gf mom
good luck you will need it
2007-01-10 09:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you Talked To The Mother?
If Not Thenn You Have To Tell her That It is not her decision whether you guys communicate or not. If She Doesn't get it you need to prove to her that you are a good girl. Do some god stuff buy her things make her impressed.
2007-01-10 09:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by daniielle..♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask your mother if you can invite him home to your house for a weekend stay (as it is a long distance thing). Then she can meet the guy and you can spend time together. Don't fight her on the sleeping apart thing. Just accept whatever terms your mum dictates for the weekend. If he is a truly great guy, I am sure she will grow to like him as much as you do.
Good luck!
2007-01-10 08:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with her and tell her exactly how you feel. Say that you are sorry for hanging out with him at his house without her permission (you really shouldn't have done that, you went behind your mother's back) and just see what she says. You should have been honest with your mother, and she has every right to be angry at you because you have betrayed her trust. At the end of the day, if she doesn't want you to be with him you will just have to learn from your mistake and accept it is over with him.
2016-05-23 06:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how young exactly are you? and doesnt he have a cell phone? i mean cant he talk to you outside of the house? how does his mother have control over everything he do? are you sure he's not making all of this up? my gf is a couple hrs away from me and she's not allow to date but we still talk even though her parents dont allow it. I mean her parents doesnt keep track of her all the time. i wonder how does your guy's mom does that. and if you love him, forget his mom. tell him if he loves you, he better find ways to talk to you.
2007-01-10 09:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as i hate to say this, long distance relationships rarely work out. You have to have great communication and lots and lots of trust. I'm not sure how old you are. But if he is allowing his mother to make his decisions about he talks to, then it may be time to move on.
2007-01-10 08:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is gonna sound WAY harsh.........but get over it .........you said it yourself your young there will be others. EVEN if you do get to be with him you'll always have his mom over your shoulder houndin him etc. etc. making it miserable for both of you. I've been there not because i'm a bad guy or anything but cause my skin color. I'm hispanic and the girls parents wanted her to have nothing to do with me. i've got a GREAT job never been in jail etc. etc. BUT due to my nationality the couldn't get past that it ultimately drove us to splitting up. So my best advice for you is to try to find someone new whose family will respect you for who you are.
2007-01-10 08:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by ag2588101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋