me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 months and everything has been great. We got into a huge fight yesterday. and "broke up" she went to the bar last night. She called me first thing in the morning and told me how an old friends car broke down and he spent the night. I know he slept in her bed. She told me that he tried to kiss her, she said no. and she did not do anything. I also looked up the guy and talked to him. He was very open to speaking to me and told me that they did not do anything. I know they slept together about a year ago. Should I trust my girlfriend or should I find someone new?
2007-01-10 08:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by wagnerforwarding 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really don't need other people's opinion on this but...
Your relationship can't be as strong as you thought if her actions after an argument is to hit the bar. Too many coincidences happened with her story. First how did the ex-boyfriend know which bar to meet up with her. Second, he's an ex-boyfriend. He doesn't need to be at her house at all. And third, why is she so persistent on divulging the story to you? I thought you broke up. Maybe she feels guilty about something.
Either way this is a recipe for disaster. You already have the trust issue. You've only invested 7 months of your dating life with her trampy a**. Cut your losses NOW and move on to a new girlfriend WITHOUT the extra baggage hanging around.
2007-01-10 09:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by FordGT guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your whole story. First I want to say that I am so sorry you are going through this. I think that a lot of things need to happen here. You need to not call him and let him come to you. Once he does {and he will} tell him that you are keeping "MY" baby. Say my. If he says, "its my baby too" say "yeah and I am keeping my baby I am not killing it, it has nothing to do with you". If he does say that he wants to work it out or try to etc. tell him he needs to quit being such a wussy and stand up to his parents. He is not 15. He is an adult and needs to act like it. He can date who he wants and doesn't need lectures from his parents. They can either accept you or not. But is he LOVES you truly, then it doesnt matter what his parents think. Another thing, if he wants you all to be together then he needs to take your alls relationship to another level it should have been at a LONG time ago. That means sleeping at each others houses. This is a hard decision honey, but the easiest one of them all is keeping that precious baby who is the innocent one in the situation. I personally could not be with someone who cheated. Whether or not he knew I was pregnant is irrelevant. He should've never done that. I believe once a cheater always a cheater - so I dont know if I could ever trust him again. Dont make a decision over night. Think long and hard about this. When you pick best answer let everyone know what you decided please. Good luck to you.
2016-05-23 06:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So every time you have a fight she will run to a bar and pick someone up. Not good. Leave at once.
2007-01-10 08:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can. If she can go find someone else THAT fast imagine what your life will be like if you were married.
2007-01-10 08:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by infidel-louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you for real? or are you just a total fool?
2007-01-10 08:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋