Right theres this boy that i like and apparently.. he likes me and recently we been acting really shy round each other and his friend sed he was going to ask me out but he hasnt yet.. someone se dhis w8ing for me to ask him..i cant pluck enuff courage to ask him tho.. But then i donno if i shoudl ask him out anyway beacuse were so shy tht we wont do nuffin if you no wht i meen so it wud be pointless.. But hes all i can fink about and i donno wht do..?
2007-01-10 08:43:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I going to put this out there for you plain and simple.
Option 1:Just ask him, If he is to gutless to do the job go ahead and approach him. Its not the end of the world if he blows you off.
The whole (Many Fish in the Sea) saying its true!
But if you do, do the approaching make it cool. Approach him when he's not around his buddies or else the razing he'll get will make him wish he'd said no. Also, don't make it anything big keep it simple.
Option 2: Be a gamer.... meaning try dropping any kinda hint that you would appreciate an advance. Ask him to help you with something simple. to start a conversation. let him build up some courage maybe he'll feel good about himself to ask you out.
I thinking he may not be worth the trouble confidence is a big thing. And more importantly your young.... in 15yrs or less you will probably look back on the things your doing now and say "WOW, I thought I had problems then"
What I am saying to things may look big now but things get alot harder as the years roll by. Trust Me!!!
2007-01-10 08:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by The_Schwarz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, some of these answers were mean. But whatever.
You both need to get to know each other better, and ya'll will feel more comfortable talking to each other instead of being so shy. If he's too shy to talk to you, then he's not gonna ask you out right away. Give it some time to where its easier for both of you to talk to each other. If you both end up liking each other, than you'll have a better chance on him asking you out.
Good Luck. :)
2007-01-10 16:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by jenny k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and you know that hes shy just casually tell him that the two of you should go out sometime and leave the rest up to fate. if there are feelings between the two of you then the shyness will go wawy with a lil time. good luck
2007-01-10 16:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by yungblud00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so shy around him...maybe he is thinking that you don't want to go out with him because you are being shy around him. That could be giving him mixed signals...you should just try to have small talk with him. It will make him feel more comfortable and then maybe he will ask you out.
2007-01-10 16:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first u should spell check second go talk to him. make him open up and try to get to know him. u could really help him if u ask him out. since he's shy its unbelievably hard for a shy guy to ask a girl out. good luck
2007-01-10 16:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are too shy to ask eachother out, you probably won't even talk to eachother while you are going out. So don't waste your time.
2007-01-10 16:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and ask him out. If that is too hard just say hi to him and see what happens. You won't know til you try.
2007-01-10 16:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by rubyred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First honey learn to spell and maybe you won't be to shy to write him a nice letter that he can understand
2007-01-10 16:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
learn of a get together or party whatever find out if you can go
find out if he can come or is he already invited. then poof you two are at some party together .
now if there is no party i mean a make out kind of party then arrange one and ask him to come.
2007-01-10 16:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Puberty, will hit both of you. Then it's Katey barr the Door!
2007-01-10 16:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋