i have a real big problem, i never think before i act am just so stupid!!, well what happened was i was real angry at my crush becuase i thought hes been telling me lies about how much he likes me and so i decided to text him, i said some real nasty things i said ' i know when you read this text you will get angry, am i really special to you just like *******. all your interested is in sex right? ........i know am not gunna get a reply!!' when i read it over i was like what have i done!, am absolutley mortified, i really like this guy and now for sure i have lost him forever and i have been crying since i sent the message and am so stupid for doing it. What am i going to do now, how can i apologise to him??, it was too harsh i would be too ashamed.
2007-01-10 08:43:04 · 6 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So sorry hon! I've done the same thing. MY advice: apologize, now. But NOT through text. In person. Honest to God-just explain how you feel, that you were upset, and you didn't mean it. Basically, beg for forgiveness without literally begging. (If that fails-tell him you were on your period and you just went off. LOL:-)
I hope all goes well! Let me know with an e-mail!
2007-01-10 08:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by jordpr_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just like you laid it out here. Not in a text message either, but in person or on the phone ... you call him. Tell him you are absolutely moritified that you would send a message like that to him, and that you were very foolish and sorry if you hurt him. Tell him it was an unthinking reaction, and that sometimes women sometimes think a guy is lying to them because a lot of guys do just to get in their pants. Just be honest with him. He's either pissed or hurt or both.
2007-01-10 16:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmw well wen you see him explaine how you were feeling and explain that you didnt really meen what you seed and apologize..
2007-01-10 16:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have to say sorry to him and tell him that u were very emtional and u didnt mean it. u also have to tell him u like him. good luck
2007-01-10 16:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you meant to send it to someone else but accidentally sent it to him...
umm...actually no. if he was lying to you why do you care about losing him?
2007-01-10 16:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by someguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people make mistakes. he'll understand
2007-01-10 16:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by PurpleAndGold10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋