If in your mind you really really think that your man is cheating on you, I mean you think this 24/7, you dream about it all the time, do you think that means he is really cheating on you or are you just really paranoid?
Cause someone said that a womans intuition never lies but is that really for sure?
2007-01-10 08:35:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we arent living together right now because i had to move away to go to school. But before i left, some girl called our house one time and asked for him and i said he wasnt home call later and she never called him back. when he got home i freaked out on him and he said that i was overreacting and she was just a classmate of his when he was in school and she was looking for a job for him. he told me it was my fault he never told me because i overreact to things like that. Then he is never home and sometimes when I call his cell phone he never answers and will shut it off right away.One time we had a huge fight and i tried to call him till 1 in the morning and he never answered and his cellphone was shut off and when i talked to him again he said he was at home but he didnt want to talk. He hides his money from me, he never tells me anything about his life or what he is doing. he plays soccer till like midnight or later every saturday. Its at an indoor soccer club,r they open that late?
2007-01-10 08:48:02 · update #1
Nothing is for certain and the only way you are going to put your mind to ease is to confront him and come right out and ask him. I believe that the majority of the time a person's intuition is a good gage but sometimes we are guilty of trying to direct them in the wrong direction also. If you are truly beginning to become paranoid over this then please have a good heart to heart with your husband and let him know what you are feeling and thinking. Hopefully he will be able to put your mind to ease and tell you honestly that he would never be unfaithful to you. Best of luck.
2007-01-10 08:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this based on evidence or have you been hurt in the past? If you're finding other girls phone numbers lying around the house then you need to confront him. If ti's bc other men have hurt you, then you need to take a step back and assess the situation. Either way a relationship will not work without trust. Maybe you should spend some time concentraring on yourself and what makes you happy. Good Luck
2007-01-10 16:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I relied on my intuition and I was right - the scumbag was cheating.. What kind of evidence do you have? LIke, not answering his cell phone when you call? Not saying I love you on the phone? Starting to work out at the gym? Suddenly busy where before had free time? and #1 - not wanting to be intimate... any of these?
2007-01-10 16:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by smartypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are thinking about it 24/7 doesn't mean that he's cheating. But, if there are other signs that he's cheating, he may be. Either way, if there is no trust in a relationship, it's doomed.
2007-01-10 16:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking this 24/7 without any real evidence that he is cheating on you...then it sounds like you are acting very paranoid
2007-01-10 16:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be paranoia. But I'm not sure about that, I sometimes have the same feeling with my b/f, and you can never really tell for sure, unless he confesses. I think you should just ask straight up, and ask him to be honest with you.
2007-01-10 16:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your intuition...So just ask him if he's cheating on you and watch his reactions, He'll denie it of course but if you watch the way his physical reaction, such as advertion of the eyes and etc... then he's lying...but PLEASE dont let your mind be set in stone or you may find something that isn't there...
2007-01-10 16:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Snooky D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when if u just think so it is just paranoid but if u see something and then think the way go ahead and spy on him or y u should wait? go ahead spy on him for 2 3 days u will come to know about.
2007-01-10 16:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you are paranoid doesn't mean no one is out to get you.
Listen to your intuition
2007-01-10 16:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have evidence that he is cheating and you really believe he is, then you need to talk to him about.
2007-01-10 16:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dirty.Little.Secret. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋