shes a senior in high school and im a sophomore and she embarrasses me all the time. She always asks what my boys i like when everyone is around and she always goes through my stuff. when i had a bunch of friends over last week she was cleaning our room and found a pair of my undies on the bed and asked in front of everyone why i always leave my panties lying around. she proceeded to hold them up so all my guy friends got a look at my pink heart underwear. Should i ignore her or embarrass her like this?
2007-01-10 08:30:10 · 7 answers · asked by A J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should embarass her but if your sister and the other girls do something to you don't complain about it.
2007-01-11 11:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will only continue you to do this whilst she knows she is embarrassing you. If you show no reaction she will stop because there will no longer be a point in doing it. Next time she asks which boys you like, don't tell her. Could you ask your Mom for somewhere private to put your stuff? Could you maybe get a lock on your closet, or your bedroom door? Your guy friends probably thought your panties were cute. I would ignore her, trying to embarrass her will only up the ante.
2007-01-10 16:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My younger sister was a freshman when I was a senior in high school, and I would have never dreamed of doing something like that to her! It was frustrating enough for her just to have an older sister there. My advice would be to refrain from the childish acts she is putting you through and instead look like the more mature,classy sibling ;-) Good Luck Dear
2007-01-10 16:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by JulestheBuckeye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sad state of events when to make yourself feel like a bigger person you have to embarass your younger sister. I would say just ignore her and laugh when she does embarass you. Use this in life also very helpful i have found. Or you could just return the favour then when she cracks the grumpys you could say well your my older sister you did it to me i just figured that's what sisters did.
2007-01-10 16:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lambchop 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first tell her that you are bothered by it! and if she still doesnt listen then get her back! you are one of the ppl that knows the MOST about her . . so use it agianst her!!! you can do whatever if you feel that you have to! cause maybe she needs to realize what it feels like! and have lots of back up info about her cause if she is around ppl then she might try to come back! so makesure you have more stuff to say! believe me . . . i have little sisters and i know what i WOULDNT want them to do!
2007-01-10 16:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by me . . . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart talk with big sister and tell her that you don't appreciate the invassion of your privacy and that you expect to be respected in this manner like you do hers.
2007-01-10 16:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
embarrass her right back
2007-01-10 16:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋