2007-01-10 08:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by iluvit68n1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you found out that he went out with a girl. I would lay it down on him...and confront him with it. If he lies and says he didn't then, use proof how you found out in the first place.
2007-01-10 08:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would come out and just ask. You can usually tell by body language and facial expressions if he's telling the truth or not. Plus, the explanation that goes along with it will tell you also. I can smell excuses a mile away. But I've dated a lot and heard all kinds of stories from friends and people in general. I wouldn't be confrontational about it; you won't get a "right" first answer if you do it that way.
2007-01-10 16:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont have a boyfriend. If you are sure he did then just tell him its over. If he asks why then tell him that if he wants to have any chance with you whatsoever, he should tell you what he has lied to you about. Be prepared that he still wont admit it in which case you walk away and never talk to him again. He might tell you about other things he has done wrong as well which might go two ways
a) You might think that they were not that bad but then you know everything about him to base you decision to be with him on
b) You might hear things which will tell you that he is NOT the guy for you which will getting over him easier.
PS: If you know for sure that he did go out with the girl then be a hard *** and dont accept sorry *** excuses and denies.
2007-01-10 16:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When talking to him, be cautious with what you say, but talk to him, and just clue him in about it, and if he denies the whole thing......Just keep your guard up......
Where did you hear it from? Are you certain? Could it be a lie? Think about those too before you confront him......
2007-01-10 16:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by SkIttLeTTe23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say " Listen hear bi^^h, Why the hell did you go out with another girl? Am I not good enough for you? Are you dumb? Shut Up, tell me the truth don't even lie.
2007-01-10 16:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would confront him with my new boyfriend, he would be history.
2007-01-10 16:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me and I met up with the other girl and we both went to his house together to surprise him. Then we knew he couldn't lie! It worked like a charm and it is hilarious to this day....
PS: We both dumped him.
2007-01-10 16:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should ask him if he has and if he says no then leave him (you should leave him anyway) just tell him that he didn't even have the decency to tell the truth there is no love here no one should have some one do that to them its cruel and wrong hes a fool for doing it to you
2007-01-10 16:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by auzzie_bloke21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rock solid evidence and simply tell him that you know. And because you know, you're also leaving him. Just like that. You know - listen to Beyonce's "Irreplaceable" and do just that.
2007-01-10 16:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Khali 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u know for sure...ask him..and if he says no...well he lied...slap him..kick him in the balls...W/E U DO JUST GET BACK AT HIM!!! or u can do this: just be like, so i've heard u went out w/ sum1 else...i know its true dont lie to me!!! then see what he has to say...dont tell him who told u unless that person duznt care if u say...but neways yell at him, get in his face...its his fault...he shouldnt have!!!
2007-01-10 16:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by basketball_69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋