dang! most of the guys like to hurt me physically! and i don't get it,should be otherwise...i'm 5'3'' and delicate....i mean,i don't understand...and they especially like to grab my wrists and neck.i don't know why they're so driven to agress me...and they love it... what the crap is this?
2007-01-10 08:17:01 · 35 answers · asked by Bluntness 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It makes them feel powerful. Take a self defense class and knock the crap out of them the next time it happens.
2007-01-10 08:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are picking the wrong kind of guys.
Wise up just cause you are 5ft 3", don't mean you can't kick some a**.
I am 5' 3" and have never been hit.
Show men you are proud of yourself, and you will not take hostility.
Is your father a hostile man? If so maybe that's why you get hooked up with these *******.
You are a strong woman, find a nice guy. And read those signs!!!!
2007-01-10 08:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by R♥bin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to examine the type of guy you date., and ask yourself what it is about them that attracts you to them in the first place.
At the end of the day, there must be a certain thing about them that makes you find that type of guy particularly attractive.
It may also be a social culture type of thing. There are certain sub-cultures - particularly in the US and UK ,but elsewhere as well - where its seen as acceptable/excusable, when in reality it is not.
If thats the case, I'd suggest dating someone outside of that culture.
Either way, you need to change the type of guy you're dating. A vast majority of men do not physically abuse their spouses.
And also, have confidence in yourself - soon as they do something you sdont like, tell them so. If they dont listen ,then make them history !
2007-01-10 08:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Andy the Oldie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest redefining the men you are interested in and moving on. It sounds like a type of man you attract or are attracted to.
Be bold and set some different parameters and dont be afraid to be alone util you get what you desire. PS. Make sure it is not you that is attracting the wrong guy.
2007-01-10 08:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by jackbarrowiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really sad...i think that u should really consider talking to ur close friends about this or even think about contacting a counselor or someone...maybe u should make a list of all the guys u have been with and the ones who have been physically abusive with u...write their names in red...write down physical and mental/talental characteristcs next to each name...and try to find traits which reoccur the most in the abusive guys and the traits which reoccur in the nonabusive guys and try going for guys with similar traits to those of the nonabusive guys.
good luck
xao
take care of urself:)
2007-01-10 08:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how shitty. It could be because you are small and delicate and they have this feeling of power over you. Some men are such *****. Good luck on finding the right one though, I'm sure you will.
2007-01-10 08:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say how old you are.....if very young, maybe you are just a brat?
if older, then you are def. picking the WRONG guys! NO man should hit a woman..hurt her etc..unless you are maybe into S & M???
if all is normal, then something is wrong with the guys you are going with......find a nice guy before someone breaks your neck.
2007-01-10 08:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to start finding better guys to be around. Not all guys are like that, but those guys you are around now are obviously jerks. You need to find a guy(s) that won't do that sort of thing. You should also tell them that enough is enough. Tell them to stop if you don't like it.
2007-01-10 08:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its happened more than once or twice, then mabey you need to look at your lifestyle and your methods of choosing your partners, it could be that you are a natural born victim, my sister is, or mabey youre a pain in the *** and push these men to there extreme so they snap, i dont know you, so i cant judge. x
2007-01-10 08:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep picking dominant guys, try picking one that's a little more submissive.
Interestingly guys that are doing well in work life and have an element of power are usually submissive in the bedroom.
2007-01-10 08:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by Shockey Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋