I really like this guy, and he flirts with me until I'm about to burst. He knows I like him because a friend of ours told him. I've always played it off as I don't, but really, I do. How can I tell him that I do like him? How can I get him to notice me? All help will be appreciated!!!
Lastly, how can I convince him that I don't like the guy he thinks is my boyfriend?
2007-01-10 08:14:55 · 15 answers · asked by Time goes by 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well obviously he has already noticed you, or he wouldn't be flirting with you lol. Just tell him your true feelings. He would want to hear it from you, not your friends. As for convincing him that you don't like the other guy, just tell him the truth. If you really mean it, he will believe you. Just explain that you like him more than any other guy!
2007-01-10 08:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and manufacture an opportunity to go out together e.g. bring the cinema up and find out what films you both like. then keep tabs on when one of those type are next on. Casually tell him you're going to go see it and ask him if he fancies joining u. If not the cinema, substitute for DVD, pub, cafe etc...
From the male point of view, i've always been more interested in girls when i've thought someone else may move in first
2007-01-10 16:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by sharmanator1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him is probably the best way, at the very least when you're questioned about it just stay quiet rather than denying it. When you get him alone drop hints, huge ones, subtlety does not work with guys, that's the thing that girls tend to get wrong.
2007-01-10 16:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by fuse46406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are shy; might serve you well to find out why you were unable to be honest with him.
If you find out from yourself why you are shy and not honest with him you may well find your best approach.
I was in a similar situation a few years back, and the girl reached the point where she wanted the discussion bad enough that she just laid her cards on the table. Straight forward. I accepted her invite without question.
2007-01-10 16:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is play hard to get and let him ask you out and act so grown up around and don't act stupid. When he is around you and your best friend is around you say that guy's name and say that you are not going out with him but, say it to where he can hear it. Problem solved! Good Luck
2007-01-10 16:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Shellee M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st get that guy to come up to him and tell him yall arnt going out as for ur dream man he knows u like him so why dont u find out if he likes u.. u could try make up... or change in clothes fashion
2007-01-10 16:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in the direct approach. You know he likes you, he knows you like him. Ask him out, tell him how you really feel about him. Not necessarily in that order.
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2007-01-10 16:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop denying your feelings, the more you do that, the more he'll think that you really don't like him. When he flirst with you, flirt back!
2007-01-10 16:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be good just to express yourself let him know if he shoots you down it is not the end of the world theyre be plenty more where he came from. be confident.
2007-01-10 16:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already know u like him. try ask him out. but u dont totaly have to. if ur a prep like i am. were hollister ambercombie aero. whatever.
2007-01-10 20:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by -jfhskjfhsdkjfhds- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋