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i hear going shopping is also a great opportunity to meet women. anyone got any views on how true this is or tips on how to start up a conversation

2007-01-10 07:51:05 · 11 answers · asked by sharmanator1969 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Go shopping at a women's clothes store. When you see a lady you would like to talk to, casually walk over to her. Tell her that you are trying to pick out something for your sister for her birthday. Ask her for her opinion and then...let the good times roll!

This trick can also work at the book store, music store, etc.

2007-01-10 07:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1 0

Well...women definately love to shop, so it's probably a good opportunity to meet someone! But, I know I am usually rushed when I go shopping and probably don't want to spend that time having a conversation with a man I just met (just being honest here). If you are at a mall, maybe you could go to a resting area. **make sure she's single first by checking the ring finger.** Things that could be good conversation starters might be: "Do you know where (insert store name) is?" Then you can say thank you and pick something to compliment her on. You can ask if she knows of any good restaraunts in the area...and go from there and maybe talk about what kind of food you like. Just try to be yourself and don't act too desperate. If you meet someone you like and you can tell she likes you back then you might say something like, "I hope I am not being too forward, but I would love to take you to dinner some night..." Hopefully, this will work for you. Good Luck! : )

2007-01-10 16:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0 0

Women love to meet guys while shopping, but it depends on your plan of action. You don't want to creep her out by coming on too strong, but you also don't want to be the "Nice Guy". Who is the "Nice Guy"? The "Nice Guy" is the man that is too shy to ask her on a date, so buys her lunch and becomes her new best friend. From there, the romantic relationship you planned on having with her is gonna go down hill. Because the moment she met you, you gave her the wrong impression.

One good way to start talking with a woman you really like is to find a way to run into her on accident. This may sound corny at first, but believe me, women love a good story to tell their friends on how they met a great guy. From there, introduce yourself to her in a smooth fashion. When you get a conversation going ask her in a sweet way, out on a date. A lady always likes it when a man gets down to the point. And if she declines, don't worry, there's plenty of other fish in the sea.

So, my advice to you at first, would be to go to the mall with a group of guy friends, have a good time, but also be on the lookout. Because I garantee there are groups of women who aren't necessarily there to shop.........I should know. It's been my excuse plenty of times before.

Oh, and one last pointer, if you get her on a date, during the conversation, pay close attention and keep eye contact!! That's the most important thing to a women, to know that you care about what she has to say.

2007-01-10 16:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by ditsybrunete09 1 · 0 0

You should probably try to meet women wherever it is that you like to go so you two already have something in common.

Once when I was browsing through CDs in a Virgin Megastore, some guy struck up a conversation with me by asking me what I thought the difference was between Rap and R&B. We spoke for awhile.

2007-01-10 15:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

It depends on how good looking you are. If you are, than just start talking. If your not, good luck. It doesn't matter what you do or say. Most women will see you as creepy. Unless your ugly, have money, and roll up in a nice car. Like it or not ladies, you know it is true!

2007-01-10 15:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by myhalo 1 3 · 0 0

Do things that are interesting to you and talk to the others that are there. If you are shopping to troll for women, prep for the part with grooming, hygiene, conversation starters.

Coffee bars, volunteer - etc.

2007-01-10 15:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0 0

the best places to meet women are places that they like to go alot. Malls are one good place. avoid the women in mens departments though. they are usually shopping for their partner. ask a woman for her opinion on a scent of a fragrance or color of sweater for your mother or sister. even if you have neither, then go from there

2007-01-10 15:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

mr johnson get a life

women dont want to go shopping and find a man its annoying DO NOT try to pick a girl up shopping

2007-01-10 15:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0 0

well if you see a woman at the mall shopping just start by saying you like what ever she may have in her hand. or if you really want to just talk just ask her how she is doing.

2007-01-10 15:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by heavenlyangelscent 2 · 0 0

I've always found "Hello" to be a great conversation starter.

2007-01-10 15:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 0 0

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