So yeah I met this guy and we flirted a lot, and kissed once. I hung out with him several times and we flirt constantly. He has a gf, who he is planning on breaking up with. He never brings her up, and if you ask him if he's taken..he'll say no. He told me he likes me and I told him I like him too. But he never got to asking me out. I don't know why. He told some of his friends he doesnt know if he'll ask me out..but why? I mean..we do like eachother.... And then the other day he wanted us to have those cute little nicknames..=/ help?
2007-01-10 07:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... you definately have something... But be preapred for anything! You could also try to hit on him to see how he reacts. Also... I know this is sooooooo bad for the first date, but hey, you guys know each other, you communicate, it's time you try something puerile. Find the best movie on cinema right now, and when you are with him (only with him, as there are chances for others to join in) pretend you saw the poster of ABC, and tell him you have seen the trailer and it has good recommendation. 'Hey, wanna go? It'll be fun.' See how he reacts. If he is interested, you may try the next steps.
One reason for which he didn't go out with you yet, could be that he is still connected to that girl and doesn't want to hurt her by being seen with another girl. My advice: try to know him a little bit more, get to be more than just friends, and you will see how things will change as he will enjoy spending time with you.
2007-01-10 08:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess it's not soft from me to say that , but it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm 99% sure that he wants just to have fun with you.
It's obvious that if he wanted something more, he would have already asked you out. A man who truly likes you is decided to ask you out and doesn't have to ask his friends.
He might like your looks and he might ask you out but that's not beacuse he likes you for what you are. Don't let any man play you, 'cause it's just your fault if that happens.
+he has a gf. You act exactly as my best friend when she met a guy in a lingerie shop and after a bit sweet talk he told her that he is buying underwear for his mother. And the worst part is that she believed him!
Just think about it a bit. Think how does this guy talk about his gf like she doesn't even exist. Would you like to be in her shoes? No? I thought so, too, but you may be if you get stubborn to have a relationship with him.
Hmmm... in fact is a lil bit the gf's fault too, 'cause a real woman knows how to make a man think only about her, but that's other problem.
Try to get rid of this man or I bet that in 2 weeks you'll post a question something like "All men are the same?" or" How to heal open wounds?" or "If love isn't a game why are they so many players?"
...all this it's just your option. Good luck.
PS: If you think you are girl enough, you can teach this player a lesson that he will never forget.
2007-01-10 16:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is messing with u. If he has a gf but when asked says he doesnt, wat makes u so sure that if u two go out he wont say the same about u. I mean obviously he is flirting with u behind his gf' back, and if ur his future gf then wat do u think he'll be doing? Flirting behind ur back. I would stay away from this guy, he's just probaly goin to end up hurting u.
2007-01-10 15:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by ck26062 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey give him some space and time. Jst remember he is getting out of a relationship and may not be interested rushing into another one as yet. So jst be patient and wait. He will take ya out.
2007-01-13 23:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by bhatrax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you more b/c he can't have you (b/c of his relationship). You should be careful b/c in the end, rebounds rarely work out. Good luck.
2007-01-10 15:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by TheClassic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe
dont worry abt it ....he will ask you out wen he is ready!
he is prob just a bit afraid of hurtin da oda girl alot by goin out wit sumone straight away and wants to wait awhile!
so just enjoy his company keep flirtin nd he will b urs soon enuf!!
2007-01-14 11:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by kate m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he likes that is for sure but u should also try to adjust with his friend circle. and advice him to take you somewhere else all alone where noones is there to disturb u to and have a nice time.
2007-01-10 16:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on his girlfriend he is bound to cheat on you - run a mile from him leopards can, but rarely change their spots.
2007-01-10 18:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Babloo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... am afraid that your in a trap.. first tell him to break-up with that girl and then meet you again next time... its quite risky to hang-out with him.. coz u might end up in trouble...
BE CAREFUL!!
2007-01-14 10:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by aysha.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u wait till he is officially broke up wit her, cuz boys these days like 2 cheat, nd trick their gurls nd crap
2007-01-10 15:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋