My man is (was) Gay?

Question

Here comes the story I was dating this guy for 6yr he was very abusive. During this time I became good friend with this gay guy. I have plenty of gay friends with him I always felt this attraction from both sides. He would flirt with me and I would take serious.

I broke up with my boyfriend and my friend moved away and that is when we really became close we would talk on the phone for hours every single day for months. My attraction grew for him and I believe so did his… he convinced me to move to where he was at.

And I did! The first week he asked me to be his girl friend we have been together for about 2yrs now and we live together I really believe that we love each other but I don’t know if I am doing the right thing since he is still very feminine, and I feel as if he wants to be with guys. also at first we had a very good sexual relationship and the past couple of months have been bad. What should I do I have already talk to him about it and he tells me that he loves me.

Answer 1

maybe he like a lot of women who use to like girls and the like men or vice versa .. work it out with him

Answer 2

Rule #1 - Never move for a man. Never!!!!!

Rule #2 - don't date a man who admits to being gay. He's GAY....which means he loves men.

Rule #3 - Love and sex are not one and the same. He may very well love you. I loe my father.....but think sex is out of the question.

Answer 3

you need to ask him which side of the fence he prefers I am sure he loves you but it may not be the kind of relationship he can function in

Answer 4

he could have been confused when he was younger who knows. If you both love another work on the relationship.

good luck

Answer 5

WOW.....