Okay my guy best friend is in love with me, but I don't love him like he loves me. I already have a boyfriend who I am head over heels for, but I think my boyfriend loves my girl best friend. My girl best friend has a boyfriend too which she says she is head over heels for him. Make any sense? I am lost. I got two questions. 1 What should I do with my boyfriend cuz I mean he never calls and I dont see him anymore. 2 What should i do with my guy best friend who is in love with me? I mean are my girl best friend and boyfriend hookin up behind my back and my girl best friend's boyfriend is my ex boyfriend. I mean she has basically took every boyfriend I have ever had away from me and I am wondering if she is going to take this one too. Can someone please PLEASE!! help me out?! I really need some advice. I am begging for some advice.
2007-01-10 07:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by Avie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, that seems pretty complicated. Honestly, if doesn't feel the same between the two of you & your boyfriend anymore, he never calls you, & you never see him...than maybe it's not right to be with him right now. You should talk to him about it first, because it could be a misunderstanding. And if your having doubts in the first place, than you need to do something about it, and not keep it all bottled up inside. It's one of the worst & painful mistakes you can make.
If you don't love your guy bestfriend any more than a friend, then don't lead him on. Tell him how you care too much about him as a friend, to risk ruining it by going out.
You basically just need to be 100% honest with people, and tell them how you feel right then and there. Trust me, a similar thing like this has happened to me & I tried to let it pass by, but it only got worse and worse. Be straightfoward and stay strong.
If you love someone, let them go.
If they come back to you, their yours.
If they don't, then they never were.
:) Good Luck!
2007-01-10 08:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
has your boyfriend given you any reason to suggest that he's in love with your *best* girlfriend and I use that term lightly because she is no friend!! lose her! If your boyfriend isn't calling you then you should just talk to him find out what's going on. And as far as your guy friend, if you don't like him in that way then just tell him, be honest. You need to confront your boyfriend first. then go from there. Good Luck.
2007-01-10 16:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by sugarmagnolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, lose the best female friend, any friend who doesn't respect your relationships doesn't deserve to be called friend. Second, ask your boyfriend what's really going on in his mind. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, why stay? And then, you can give your best male friend a try as a boyfriend. Good luck!
2007-01-10 15:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend isn't showing you any attention then take a hint. Let him go and show some attention to your guy best friend. You'll find your feelings can change.Just go s l o w. Spend time together and talk about things in common.
2007-01-10 15:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, well first if he dosent call you then **** him you know..cuz i mean thats pretty ****** up that he dosent call you..i know you love him and every thing but you need to let him go.. youll look back at this day and say that you were glad that you dumped him..and about your best guy friend if you dont like him sit down with him and tell him how you feel..trust me ive been through both of those situations b4..good luck
2007-01-10 15:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got same situation! well,my gf always wants my guys,and kinda succeeds...in your case,it might be hard for you to do this,but ,i'd say you quit your friendship with your "girl best friend",a real friend doesn't do that! second,drop him.he's obvioulsy not worth your time.and try with your guy best friend,you never know wot it could turn out,it could be beautiful,give him a chance.now,it's up to you to decide what's best for yourself.but if you have self-respect and pride,leave your bf and best girlfriend,they're not worth your time.you can do better.and there are lots of better guys out there in the world! you'll be just fine without him. hope i helped a lil....
2007-01-10 15:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bluntness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should at least give him a chance you might like him more than you thought! As for him say "you havn't called or seen me" and kick his a@@ to the curv
2007-01-17 23:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by New York 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need any of them only your guy best friend and may be you might fall for him leave the rest alone they deserve each other
2007-01-10 15:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by holguin_margarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all should get together and talk about this before its gets too serious.
2007-01-18 14:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by ruth m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋