my bf was just paralized from the waist down. he will walk again in time. but for now i need help b/c we can only seem to think of one sexual position and i hate to be on top. i dont mind doing the work but i was just wondering if any1 can think of anymore positions we could do.
2007-01-10 07:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by laughwithashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might not feel pleasure if he is paralyzed from the waist down...
try something with a chair.
2007-01-10 07:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by John Doe IV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute, he broke his neck but he's paralyzed from the waist down? Something isn't right here. If the neck is broken the paralysis is from the neck down. I've never heard of someone being paralyzed from the waist down on a neck break. What makes you think he's going to walk again? If the spinal chord has been compromised then there is no hope for walking again.
If on the chance I'm wrong, there is a book called "Sex for the paraplegic and quadriplegic" and you night want to look into that book.
2007-01-10 07:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could try sideways... or sitting (if he can sit obviously)... if he leans against something sitting should work. Its an interesting position.
I'd suggest buying a copy of the Joy of Sex, and the Joy of Sex II. It contains a wide variety of positions and other things one can do...
I wish both of you all the best, and a quick recovery for your boyfriend.
-dh
2007-01-10 07:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for now you should be pleased that he is still alive and is still able to have sex!! Get used to being on top and in time other positions will become apparent to you.
2007-01-10 07:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay on your side with your back to him or sit him in a chair an straddle him.I hope his lags get better though.
2007-01-10 07:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by irishlad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with what "Soulful_kris", said or continue being on top or wait. And until he fully recovers, you will be doing all the work!!
2007-01-10 07:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can both lay on your side, like he's spooning you from behind.
2007-01-10 07:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Curt P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could have four people lift him up and down onto you.
2007-01-10 07:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ewwwww dont do it
2007-01-10 07:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by soccerchick561 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋