Weve been apart since the summer of 06 and he continues to bother me, and try to hook back up with me, he does not get the picture that I want nothing to do with him! How do I get rid of him?
2007-01-10 07:43:58 · 19 answers · asked by prettygirlme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IV'E DEFINITLY MADE HIM AWARE THAT IM DATING, AND THAT HE SHOULD DO THE SAME, HE TELLS ME THAT NO ONE WILL EVER LOVE ME THE WAY HE DOES. I CHANGED MY NUMBER AND I MOVED AND I GOT A NEW JOB, HE SEEMS TO FOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE!!!!!! I REPORTED HIM ONCE, HE ALWAYS MANAGES TO GET IN CONTACT WITH ME! I IGNORE HIS CALLS, LETTERS, I DO NO ACCEPT HIS FLOWERS! WHAT'S UP....
2007-01-10 08:10:47 · update #1
I had a crazy like that, eight months later he was still trying to talk to me. Lucky for me I moved, bought a new car and changed my phone number all at the same time. Seriously though, if you feel threatened, or even if you requested he stop calling you and he doesn't respect that, you can log a complaint with the local police department and request a restraining order, or a no contact order.
2007-01-10 07:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've heard the old saying:
" I ran into my ex the other day...so I put the car in reverse and ran over him again."
Ok, seriously, make sure that he sees you out with another man, and sees the guy kiss you or you kiss him right on the lips. This could be a friend, or a gay guy, that he doesn't know. Sometimes the ex just needs to see it in order for it to sink in.
If he calls you again, you can say it is serious. Then, hang up.
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RESTRAINING ORDER. OR HAVE SOME THUG BREAK HIS LEGS.
2007-01-10 15:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the exact same situation i have an ex sneaking back into the picture every once in a while. He just trys to sleep with me though! Does your ex try to do that? If he does hes a sleazebag ignore him. If he's trying to be back with you and you dont feel the same you need to make your point 100% clear, tell him to back off and leave you to get on with your life.
2007-01-10 15:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by katymillward@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Avoid him and ignore all his texts and phone calls. I have an ex that wouldn't leave me alone it got to the point were he was threatening me. It didn't take long that he got tired of leaving messages and not getting any thing back. If you can find out if you can block his calls to that will help. I hope this helps!
2007-01-10 15:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by #1techfan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have tried everything and nothing has worked either have a friend of his tell him or just be blunt and let him know that you aren't interested and if he continues to bother you will have to take some action{ a court order}. hopefully you'll find a way to let him know where he finally gets the message.Good Luck
2007-01-10 15:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by heavenlyangelscent 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him know that he cannot call you or see you any more. If he continues you will have to go to the authorities.
2007-01-10 15:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a restraining order, and once he lands in jail, he will get the picture.
2007-01-10 15:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same problem i had i just told him he needs to get the pic and move on that we can still be freinds its just that i dont like u no more so get over it SO AKA just tell him he needs to back off
2007-01-10 15:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by C.C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be blunt with but don't hurt his feelings. tell him i don't like you anymore. I think you should let me go and find someone else new. your going to make one girl very happy but that gurl isn't me. be suttle. if he keeps calling change your number
2007-01-10 15:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mz T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make it perfectly clear that you have no intentions of EVER getting back with him
2007-01-10 15:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋