basically im going on holiday with someone i really really like i think he feels the same so what should i do guys what would you dooooooooooo??????????? il appreciate it alot if you answer it
2007-01-10 07:42:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh we are not alone 12 other people are coming including his sister should that matter????/
2007-01-10 07:43:59 · update #1
hey she im confused my self lol basically do you think i should pretend like im not interested like i have been doing or shall i let him knoe how i feel what would you do???????????? aww u so sweet bless
2007-01-10 08:06:21 · update #2
baby girl, the most important of the trip is that you have fun. don't do anything special; just see how things go. as long as you enjoy yourself, everything else would falls into places. go and have fun
2007-01-10 07:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey babes - well holidays are the ideal place to get together with someone - if you like him and you think he feels the same then Id go for it!
dont do ALL the running though - just send him a few subtle hints - maybe position yourself next to him on the beach and ask him to apply sun lotion to your back - let him get his hands on you!!!
After a few drinks - why not come across a bit tipsy and flirty - you should be able to read the signs for sure as to whether he likes you or not then!
Have a fantastic holiday and hope things work out with him!!
xx
2007-01-10 20:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are close with his sister, then tell her before you do anything. if he is close to his sister, then you must get her to like you before making a move. other than that, psychological researches show that when a person gets feelings towards another, then the same goes for the other, maybe not to the same extent, but it is there.
just keep something in mind, you have all the time in the world. dont rush into anything that you might regret later. be wise. if you get the sense that he likes you in the same way that you like him, then go ahead and tell him how you feel. be aware of his feelings too!
best of luck
2007-01-10 08:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mohammad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and enjoy and maybe, just maybe he will watch and see how you get on with his mates and family, there again he may just like your company. If he wants to be with you on his own he will find the right time and place if it happens great if it doesnt at least you had a good holiday day.
2007-01-10 07:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test the waters a bit by flirting lightly,be yourself and if there is some kind of response then try and get a few moments by yourself with him to be honest about your feelings.Let him know that you`ll understand if he does not feel the same and it wont affect the holiday..........good luck.
2007-01-10 07:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by sarah y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really don't need to worry this is no problem.It depends on how perfect you will be able to play your cards
Watchout because these other people may interfere and you have all your nice plans with the man you love fail.Especially his sister may be against everything between you two people.
2007-01-10 08:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er why aint he tried to pull you... He thinks you are not interested and as logical... figures if he tries you won't be his mate no more and having him arrested as a perve and then nobody will be his mate.
Guys like it when girls come on the them...
Especailly as many guys aint got a clue on how to pull girls and more scared of you then you are of them.
So forget the not interested, hard to get bollocks...
And also he wont dare try with your mates around...
So get him on your own a lot...
Also how old are you? as no good suggesting something too grown up or babyish.
Usually ways for girls to get gets attention is keep doing activities which allow for touching ie tickling, needing help to play pool, if going somewhere sunny getting him to run on lotion on back and if hes nervous (like thinking no way is this as you fancy him e better not dare say lotion your butt) say eeemn thats nice or can you rub a bit lower or ask him to do your front as well.
Also give him opportunities to check out your butt, legs, boobs etc ... ie low top and leaning forward whilst say playing a game and loking out the window so you wont notice him looking down your top.
If older mid teens on maybe engineer some way hes in the right place and time to see you undress etc.
Later ask him if he liked the view and when he panics and denies it let him know its cool you liked him looking, and ask him what he thinks of your boobs and what kinds of tops he likes on a girl etc 9ie saying i dont bite its ok to look).
Maybe have a game of nervous... ie run hands slowly up arm or leg asking him if hes nervous =stop then damn its your turn... only what was the stop word again?
or the go cinema and let him put his arm around you (try putting yours around him and snuggling into him orwisper he can put his arm around you...then let him stretch and feel your boob and then kiss him.
Or somehow end up playing stip something be it poker or playstation or bet bra etc.
Ie steer things sexual
2007-01-10 08:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if his sister don't know you like him then tell her before you make a move! But yes i think you should tell him how you feel! Because if you don't jump you can't fly! Also if he does'nt like you there are 12 other people on the trip so you can just talk to them! hope this helps x x x
2007-01-10 07:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend as much time with him as you possibly can and try to be in a good mood at all times and have fun.
You're both on holiday together and if you're right about him possibly liking you as well, then it shouldn't be too hard for things to develop between you both; you shouldn't have to rush anything.
Enjoy your holiday!
2007-01-10 07:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite him on a quiet drink alone when your on holiday. just the 2 of you and then see how the evening goes. you can always tell if someones likes you by there body language and with it just being the 2 of you then its a perfect chance.go girl
2007-01-10 07:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by sherminator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋