People always say that you can do certain things and use certain body language to let people know you are interested in them. They are sublte actions but the person sub-conciously knows what you are suggesting. Does anyone know about this and what to do?
2007-01-10 07:40:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can, but you'd be much better off if you don't think about any of that and just go up to guys and try to be friendly to them, and ask them out on dates if you want to ask them out. Anyway . . . if you're really concerned, have a look at this:
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
Also, when you approach people, try to subtly mirror their posture and tone of voice. This will make them relate to you. For example, if they're slouching, slouch. If they're at ease, be at ease. If they look tense, try to look anxious or slightly unsure of yourself. Then . . . slowly correct your posture and change your tone of voice, and change the subject of the conversation if necessary. They will usually follow what you're doing and their mood will change, all without them being consciously aware. They say that if you keep your arms and legs uncrossed, it makes a favorable impression. You should search for "neuro-linguistic programming" AKA "NLP" if you want to know more about body language. Good luck!
2007-01-10 07:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you went totally by body lanuage, most of us would or will never be involved in a relationship. However if you are interested in this person. Find out what his interests are and get to know him on a personal level. minus the sex. Pay attention to your own feelings and just don't worry wheather or not he likes you. The question is are you willing to get involved with his body language or him as an individual.
2016-03-14 04:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sit with your legs uncrossed and don't have your arms folded thats open body language as it means your more accepting and friendy.
But if you have you legs crossed and your arms folded then your more closed, making you look reserved and distant.
If you want people to be attracted to you use open body language, but if you want them to go away use closed body language.
2007-01-10 07:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Silver_Lining 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i know a few body language techniques
When standing close
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stand straight on.. crotch to crotch
Touching of the shoulder or hand - always briefly
Talk then look down then back up
When you are Sitting From across the room or table
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Cross your legs (towards him) and glance in his direction.. Stroke your leg from the shin to the knee.. resting your hand on your knee.
Look at.. then look down.. glance back up again... this makes you seem approachable
Licking of your lips in a very subtle way..
What NOT to do
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Do NOT Have arms crossed
Do NOT Try to flirt like winking
Do NOT have hands clasped... fingertips together is fine
These are a few signs...
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-10 07:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup.for example if a guy is putting his hands in his hair while he is looking at you that is a sign that he likes you.The same is when he touches his stomach.And if you play with your hair while talking with someone then you are unconsciously giving him a sign that you like him:)There are more examples of this.But there is a book about body language or you can search on the Internet:)
2007-01-10 07:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ,it depens on wot he does.....
if he stands with his pelvis more like towards you,or on the chair,all his upper body turns towards you,it means he's attracted to you. also,if his pupils are dilated,he's got big eyes when lookin at you or more of a "bedroom" face,he's very attracted to you.also,when he talks to you,if his voice becomes more"masculine",down or breathy,he is tryin to seduce you.....when his entire body turns to you when standing next to him(as if he'd be there to protect you)..you know what it means....and when he sits on the chair and his feet both face toward you,it means he's sexually attracted to you...but,these are theories.... and there are a lot more.find books:synergology....i'm not sure how they're spelled in English...i'm not an English native speaker.
2007-01-10 07:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bluntness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sure. well if you want to translate body language when like checking someone out of if theyre checkin you out, theres always things like eye contact, smiles... you know. i mean if someone crosses their arms or looks to the exits that means they probably dont want to talk to you... but if you want to let someone know you're into them without telling them then just smile and say 'hi' a lot so that puts you in his mind. trust me it works.
ps- dont put both hands on your hips at the same time because it makes you look assertive and aggresive.. not in a good way.
2007-01-10 07:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by hairspray queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact, or if you are directly talking with a person, turning your body towards them when they speak. Also, in direct conversation, a light touch on the arm while talking, will work.
2007-01-10 07:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him more, touch him more, get closer to him so that you "accidently" bump into him on occasion. Talk to him while standing in his personal space. Talk generally about relationships. Flip your hair or twirl your hair when he is talking to you. Tense up whenever he touches or gets near you. Speed up your breathing and let him hear that as well when you are near him. All of these things do the trick!
2007-01-10 07:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can help. Eye contact, smiling, and slightly touching a person will tell them you're interested.
2007-01-10 07:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋