for some reason i dont know why her breasts have been getting bigger. She likes the fact that they are larger and they draw my attention alot. So she started wearing shirts that had more cleavage, and showed alot atleast in my perspective. several times when we were at the movies i could see people looking down her shirt trying to see. this pissed me off one day and i told her off about it, she said she came home to me and loved me but i didnt like that fact of other guys like staring excessively and also i know she is trying to dress like that for me but i think certain things have thier time and place. If someone like looks and looks i am the type of person that will confront and so on and so forth. So am I wrong by telling her she should maybe cover up a bit. See I am Mexican and she is White so i guess we were both raised differently. She told my she understood and would cover up a bit, but ultimately am i wrong for telling her to do so?
2007-01-10 07:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by xxmendozaedxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't wrong for telling her. Just tell her once that it makes you uncomfortable. If she covers up more great, if not, don't step on her self confidence. Be happy that you are out in public and guys are staring, that means you have a hot girl! You may be able to compromise and see about clothes that are less revealing but still carry the same sex appeal.
2007-01-10 07:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by CPDawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny my husband is white & I'm mexican, before we started dating I would wear those kinds of things too, but as it got serious I stopped. Sometimes a girl, no matter how in love or how satisfied in their relationship, wants to feel pretty. I do, but at the same time I still don't wear things like that for the attention. It feels much better when I'm wearing unflattering clothes and I get checked out. Would you want to feel as if no one wanted you for the rest of your life (aside from your fiance)?
2007-01-10 15:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not about wrong and right - it is about respect and caring for anothers feelings. If she really cares for you and sees it bothers you that she dresses that way in public, she should stop. If she truly is dressing that way for you - then it should stay between the two of you and not go out into public. Maybe she likes the attention, and making you jealous.
2007-01-10 15:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may be indirectly trying to get attention from other men to gain self confidence. try making sure that you are giving her plenty of assurance of her beauty. i dont think its wrong to ask her to cover up. you want to be proud of the way the woman you love dresses. but dont sound like a father or she'll get defensive.
2007-01-10 15:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHHH---IT is her life---if she wants to give a show away for free it is her choice....until u are married....it is her life and her decision alone....however, if u don't like it DUMP the s l u t and move on and look for a good girl...one that doesn't dress like a s l u t
2007-01-10 15:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her to enjoy the attention... You are the one getting the benefits... Bet all the attention get her hot... :D
2007-01-10 15:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're just protecting her from their eyes.
2007-01-10 15:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋