okay people always say that to 'say' i love you isnt as important..?

Question

as 'showing' it. How do you guys 'show' it? What do I look out for from my man who says he loves me?

Answer 1

BY DOING STUFF THEY KNOW YOU LIKE OR THAT YOU HATE TO DO AND THEY DO IT FOR YOU.

Answer 2

If you have to ask, then he isn't showing you. My man shows me he loves me by the little things he remembers, like what I was wearing on our first date. He also makes sure my car is well serviced and in good condition for me to drive in. I get breakfast in bed on occasion and sometimes a late night snack. This of course goes both ways. You have to show him just how much you love him too. Words don't mean anything if your man doesn't show you the compassion. I never question if my man loves me or not. I know he does by the way he shows me. Good luck.

Answer 3

Definitely the little things. When you have a man that actually listens to you and hears what you are saying instead of in one ear and out the other ****. When he wants to cook for you because your day has been hell, or cook for just because he loves you. Men can tell you all day long that they love you, but when they take time out to do the little things, putting the kiddos to bed or surprising you with a hot bubble bath, cooking, leaving cute little notes around the house.......that's love to me!!

Answer 4

I believe this is different for different people. My husband says "I love you" but I also realize that there are so many things he does that say it as well. He always has my car full of gas. He always has my car clean. (These things are more important to him than they are to me, but it's his way of "taking care" of me.) He always volunteers to work every available overtime to be sure we have the money for extras. It's his work ethic and he feels it's his way of taking care of the family. He always takes out the garbage, fixes things around the house, keeps the lawn cared for and the pool clean, keeps the chemicals in the hot tub. He even does laundry. There's very little that I have to worry about, and he doesn't complain about doing these things. He is adamant that he'd rather do it than me have to worry about it. He also brings me little gifts of chocolate and so on. Every day when he leaves for work, he gets a newspaper, drives BACK to the house and puts it in my car on the seat so I have one, too. Little things that show he is always thinking of me are how I know he loves me.

Answer 5

Love can show itself in many different ways. My husband tells me that his world would just stop if anything ever happened to me. He brings me flowers for no reason, takes care of me when I am sick, helps without complaining, looks at me longingly every chance he gets. When ever I ask him if he needs anything from the store, he says nope--I only need you. Look for little signs, you'll know, it is in a look, a glance, an action--many just because's!!! When it is love, there won't be questions!

Answer 6

my husband is very loving.. he dose little things like he will open doors.. constantly want some phyisical contact like holding my hand or sitting close..he is always doing things like picking me a flower when we are walking or surprizing me in the middle of the day with small gifts or just calling to chit chat. it really depends on the man.. dose he treat you like a princess? if not then he may care for you but it might not be love.

Answer 7

Each person shows love differently. You should know your man well enough to know if he is showing he loves you. If you are unsure, then you may need to get to know him better.

Answer 8

if at all what he's showing is love, you definately won't be needing any assistance in seeing it....believe me, love shines in a very bright colour...you surely won't miss it.

Answer 9

Respect, consideration, admiration, trust, dependability, compassion, sweet little nothings, etc.

Answer 10

aaarrrggghhhh!