well, i was at school and i was really happy because my crush sits with me and stuff. then near the very end of the school day, my best friend (thats going out with somebody) comes up to me and tells be that my crush loves her. then right there i felt fine, but as soon as i got home i started crying and wondering why must everybody love her? (everybody does... other girls even love her lol) and so i went on msn and people started talkign to me and they knew something was wrong and now everybody thought i was emo and stuff...i just want to not love him....but....i love him so much and he loves my best friend!
please help...im 12 and im really confused. and dont say that 12 year olds dont know what its like to love, because i love him, and im crying over him right now...please help....
2007-01-10 07:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know that lots of you people out there are cussing at me and i dont care. i love him, i broke my leg to get him out of the car, and i almost died. im really in love. I know what its like to hurt because both of my parents were killed when i was 7. there maybe more fish, but hes my fish, and i really care for him. when he was sick i made him soup and went to his house to keep him company. i really really love him. i couldnt see my life without him hes the only thing thats keeping me together
2007-01-10 07:32:56 · update #1
you dont love him. your only 12 trust me if this is how you react now im gonna hate to see it when your older! get over it! theres alot bigger fish in the sea!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol funny
2007-01-10 07:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by _DestroyingAngel_ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, I was 12 and in your shoes once in my life. This is a crush and you will learn from it. Be strong, raise your standards and each crush from here forward will be easier for you to get through until Mr. Right knocks you off your feet. Hopefully then you will be old enough to know what to do and able to do something about it. At your age, your "friends" will come and go as well. Alot of backstabbing until you get a little older. Trust no-one but your own self and the brain that God gave you.
2007-01-10 15:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 12 you are feeling a lot and it can be hard to know that the person you have feelings for doesn't feel the same way. Just take it easy. Its okay to be sad and cry a little. But remember you are 12 and there will be many more guys who will see how wonderful you are and you will have your pick of the lot. Its going to be okay
2007-01-10 15:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are 12, I would tell you what I would tell my own daughter....
Dont be jealous. I doubt he loves her, she already has a boyfriend. Being 12, you are so young and you have so much life to live. Yes it hurts when you like someone and he doesnt like you back. But sometimes boys like girls for bad reasons. And I am sure you dont want to be one of those girls. Just keep talking to him as a friend and forget what your female friend said. Dont cry.....
2007-01-10 15:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll hurt for a while. It always hurts when you're rejected, but believe me that someone else will come along. I know that what you're feeling now is real, but it can be real with someone else too, someone that will love you back. You will have many boyfriends in your life, so I know it hurts now, but you'll heal.
In the mean time load up on movies and junk food and give yourself a break for a while. If you need any one to talk to just email me ok?
2007-01-10 15:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by amongthevines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd she say that? Your best friend sounds kind of spiteful, don't you think? Also, if she has a boyfriend, she shouldn't be scoping out other guys. Honestly, guys may like a girl like that because she's easy, but in the end, they won't truly respect her if she's passing herself around.
For now, listen to music that you like. At school tomorrow, just keep doing what you're doing. Just because he has a crush on one girl, doesn't mean he doesn't ALSO think you're great, too!
2007-01-10 15:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by Yuka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry. I have been in that situation and know how much it hurts. All I can tell you is it will get better, you will cry and hurt for a little while, then you will move on. Try to remember you are special and lovable, be strong and don't let them see you down.
2007-01-10 15:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop , look around the room the floor the ceiling the wall. Now go for a walk and look @ things. Really look at them. Walk for an hour or more, then you should be a little more level.
2007-01-10 15:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by sentrysharpshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO OFFENCE BUT WHAT UR SAYING SOUNDS VERY CHILDSIH.IF U CAN'T HANDLE SOMETHING SO TINY LIKE THIS THEN I DON'T THINK YOUR READY TO FACE THE WORLD OR ANY RELATIONSHIP!!JUST SUCK IT UP & TELL UR FRIEND TO BACK OFF.THIS IS SO HIGHSKOOL BULL $HIT.ON THE OTHERHAND UR 12 AND U GOT YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU.U NO WHAT THEY SAY "THERE ARE OTHER FISHES IN THE SEA"
2007-01-10 15:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by MAIME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... ur 12 get over it... start worrying about stuff like that when you are actually with the guy. not sitting next to him in class.
2007-01-10 15:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by ImInLoVeWiThAnThOnY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like your world is coming to an end.
trust me, with time things do get better.first love is very strong and you will never forget it.but life goes on and you will find someone else you will fall for. hang in there.
2007-01-10 15:24:19 · answer #11 · answered by native 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋