I am thirty six years old and a professional. Guys will constantly flirt with me and if I show interest back, they disappear. This one guy seemed crazy about me. He asked for my number and I have not heard from him since. He even sent a couple of follow up emails saying he would call. I just responded "sure." I didn't act over eager or desperate.
So, how do I break the pattern and find someone where the feeling and interest is MUTUAL????? I am tired of this one sided crap.
2007-01-10 07:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are most of all talking about flirting. That just is a world where things don't last that long. Have you considered meeting men in other ways? First friendship and/or shared activities and then the sparkle suddenly is there. This way you can check out what these men are about before even starting to flirt. Maybe a good partner is allready amongst your colleages or friends. Ask yourself: what do i want from a man? before attracting any man. Maybe the answer is much closer than you think.
2007-01-10 07:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Aram, from Holland with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 13:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try casually, slightly smiling at them and don't give more response than that until they actually ask you for a specific date and time. Do you have any guy friends? Maybe ask them. If not, ask your girls.
I know a guy that's always telling my hub and I about his crushes but he RARELY actually asks anyone for dates. Instead he keeps telling them that he'll call or call AGAIN (and AGAIN) to set up a date. how weird is that? I didn't know that guys like him were so common.
2007-01-10 07:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by caeli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you are meeting them in the wrong places. Change up your routine
2007-01-10 07:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to find horny guys, like me... :D
2007-01-10 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋