im really confused...i can't get a boyfriend.. loads of people i know can and my friends say im prettier... iwouldnt say im stunning but im not like butt ugly either... i have a great personality... i just want someone to be there and some i can spend time with... but i cant seem to find anyone... sad :'(
2007-01-10 07:14:56 · 28 answers · asked by babeybabey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It`s not sad at all,don`t worry too much there is somebody out there for you,you just need to relax and date at your own pace.If you have a great personality then let it shine through and show all these available guys that your worth getting to know.At the end of the day it`s not looks that count but a great personality and sense of humour,it`s what is on the inside that is more important.......good luck.
2007-01-10 07:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im also in the same boat as you.My mates say im not ugly but then im always meeting new girls. But there again, Iv been single for 7 years. Im 20 now and if things go well then I will have almost completed my career go which is to go and join the Army as an officer.Iv seen my mates in relationships and they are not doing anything interesting in life.Some have even told me that they envy me because im getting on with my life.Trust me.Theres more to life than relationships.
2007-01-10 07:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by medic_man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking!!Maybe you're trying too hard and coming across as desperate which is very off-putting.Looks aren't everything so how good looking you are is irrelevant-again vanity isn't a good quality.You need to chill out and stop making the lack of boyfriend a big issue in your life.I always say if you stop looking you will find it.
2007-01-10 08:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for one special guy, consider following these tips to get a boyfriend.
STEP 1: Know what type of guy you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people's feelings.
STEP 2: Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you're ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old boyfriends.
STEP 3: Attract the type of guy you're looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
STEP 4: Learn how to make a guy feel good about himself by taking an interest in his life and his aspirations.
STEP 5: Consider any unattached guys at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a boyfriend?
STEP 6: Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new guys. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
STEP 7: If you have your eye on a certain guy, let mutual friends know about your interest in him. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell him about your interest.
STEP 8: If you don't have the nerve to directly approach a guy who has caught your eye, consider being his secret admirer for a while. Send him sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let him know about your interest in him.
Tips & Warnings:
1. Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right guy for you.
2. Don't settle for anybody just so you can say you have a boyfriend. Be selective to find the right guy for you.
2007-01-10 07:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit like me (sigh) but You can get a boyfriend mabye this year is not a romance year for you and that's OK it can be a fun year or a time-for-friends year but that could be a good thing It's easy to forget about other people/things when you have a Bo.
So mabye a year with out one is what you need, To stenghen your bonds with friends and fam. because mabye 2008 will be the year for boyfriends!!!
2007-01-10 07:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by purplechick888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP LOOKING.........guys are great ...just hang out with your friends go meet new people and thats all. plus no matter how great a guy is he is still a headache sometimes and if your in school this particular guy will be a distraction in many ways.......he will come to you when you least expect it so just concentrate on making your life a successful one then if he really likes you he will manage a way to be with you ..........good luck
2007-01-10 07:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Beto'sSunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's coz your lookin 2 hard, if u just chill go out with mates have a laugh the right bloke will find u soon enough! when your least expectin it! anyway u don't need a man 2 have fun and that's what it's all about! Xx
2007-01-10 07:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...girl u too? well i'm in ur boat now, but the thing is....i'm content. learn to love your self. i know it sounds old and corny but honestly....it works....also, try just being friends with dudes that u can spend time with....alot of guys are not looking for relationships and by coming str8 off and saying "i want a relationship" may scare them off....i have plenty of guy friends that i hang out with all the time....each one gives me a better idea of that i want and don't want in a boyfriend...they also give me insight into the mysterious mind of males....try it!!!
2007-01-10 07:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by mholt_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your looking too hard. Just carry on like you normally do, without looking and the right one may just come along. You dont want just anybody for a boyfriend, you want the right one and the right one takes time and patience.
2007-01-10 07:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by lpr747 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there. Most guys are probably intimidated by you because of your beauty. Let time run its course and a boyfriend will fall right into your lap. Good Luck.
2007-01-10 07:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by The Plague 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋