Why do women get mad when guys don't tell them EVERYTHING, it's like men can't keep anything from you? Why?

Question

I can understand big issues but every little thing, you don't need to know it. I can't figure out why it's so freaking important?

Orladno explaining this just gave you a headache.

Answer 1

cause we care about you and wanna know what your doin, who ur with, where you are, etc etc. i have this problem with my bvoyfriend but i told him id back off him a bit to make him feel like hes not being watched or something. i think girls act this way because we feel like if one guy betrays us, then every guy in the world will also betray us... and we want to make sure our nightmares come true

Answer 2

Well consciously or sub-consciously men view women as objects. It's part of the dominant male thing. And as a woman being their object.. they get posessive over their object and jealous whenever someone covets their object and so forth. They get extremely paranoid when the girl doesnt answer her phone or goes out with friends partying and things like that. They feel they should know everything that goes on in your day and if you don't tell them every detail it's about the same as lieing. If you don't tell them something as small as the fact you spoke to some guy for 5 minutes that you hardly knew, while you were on a cigarette break, and then you mention it 3 days later, they wanna know why you didn't tell them the day it happened and start flipping out. It's just the way they deal with their own insecurities and you might be able to stop them from yelling about it but you wont stop them from secretly being mad.

Answer 3

This isn't a gender related issue. It happens with men too. The reason that she might ask so many questions is due to insecurity for some reason which I wouldn't begin to guess at, not knowing the circumstances. The reason he might get so upset is because perhaps he has something to hide. Whatever the reason, the asking and refusal to answer turn into a cycle and they exacerbate each other. In a good relationship with good communication, there is no need to ask insignificant questions (for example, how many lovers have you had before me?) and there is no reason to hide from each other.

Answer 4

Obviously, you're attracting and dating the wrong kind of women. Not all are like that. Everyone has little secrets. But, maybe your woman has a good reason to grill you too. Just never know on here.

Answer 5

Women like to talk. They bond with other women by sharing details about their lives and talking through whatever problems they are going through. Sometimes we forget that men don't do that. When we share details of our lives with you, we're opening ourselves up to become more deeply connected with you. We just want you to feel as emotionally involved in the relationship as we are. It's like we speak French and men speak Spanish...both Romance languages, similar words...but the meanings can get lost in translation.

Answer 6

If a woman is secure enough and trust her man then I don't know why he would want to know everything!! I asked my husband the other day for a little space because I couldn't think!! So I think it depends on the person.

Answer 7

Not all of us are like that. Some of us has sense enough to know that you had a past before we came along. Now as long as you don't want to know all of the details then everything should be lovely.

Answer 8

Complete honesty from a guy makes a women feel safe.
And if you don't feel like sharing the little stuff then how does she know you will share the big scary stuff?

Answer 9

look man women sometimes you have to lie to them so they wont get mad over a little thing....sometimes if you tell the truth it hurts but then theirs times were you lie to keep her happy....i mean theirs things they dont want to hear and they force you to tell them....i dont know man...i get headaches trying to keep her comfortable....

Answer 10

So women just want to have stuff to ***** about. I don't get about stuff not being told to me until it effects me.