I posted a question about 30 mins ago about my guyfriend possibly forwarding my calls to his vm. After I read everyone's response. I realized that I was wrong. No. I feel that I could have potentially pushed a good friend away because of my trust issues.
Regardless if he was lying or not, he really haven't/didn't give me any reasons to not trust his or doubt him. Its not his fault because the last guy that I dealt with is an ***. He has nothing to do with that but at the same time, I'm just skeptical and my guard is severly up to high. I know I want to protect my feelings but at the same time, I don't want to push him away either. If he doesn't want to deal with me anymore, I can accepted that because I don't blame him. However, I left a message apologizing to him and I also added if he wasnt lying about his cell phone he wouldnt be upset. Not realizing that it is frustrating for someone not to believe you when you're telling the truth. So what do I do now?
2007-01-10 07:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is give him space. the ball is now in his court and if he accepts your apology then great if not maybe you need to take some time off from dating and build up your self esteem. Start to trust yourself and learn who you are before jumping into another relationship. If you give yourself time to heal and love who you are you wont have these problems in the next relationship.
2007-01-10 07:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing with messages. You need to just go over to talk to him! Hold him and tell him you're sorry. That approach won't always work, but this shouldn't be an earth-shattering issue. Just GO. If he's at work, wait for him to get off. If he's at home, leave the computer and go talk to him! Good luck!
2007-01-10 15:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's going to need some time. Leave him alone for now - and while you're doing that, you should probably think hard about how NOT to let your past crud up your present and/or future relationships.
2007-01-10 15:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and wait for him to call you. If he likes you he will understand. Don't call again unless it's an emergency. Good luck Girl.
2007-01-10 15:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax! Wait for him to return your phonecall. You realized that you were wrong and now he has to either accept it or not.
2007-01-10 15:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are a spazzz poor guy, you need to get right with yourself before you go torturing this poor guy!
2007-01-10 15:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋