i cant stand her she yells at me and tells me what to do and she is making my brother be mean to me and their both treating me like a child wich i am not im 19 years old
2007-01-10 07:00:23 · 18 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell them both off, but first deal with you brother. Let them know, you are not a child if anything they are. Dont be afraid to stand up for yourself, and never let anyone yell at you, WHAT THE HELL? Dont get worked up, stay real calm and the right words will come, dont sink to their level when fighting back, show them who the real child is. NEVER EVER EVER LET ANYONE YELL AT YOU, NEVER GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT OR THE POWER TO DO THAT.
2007-01-10 07:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by beygrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not the only one with a rude sister-in-law well i don't consider her my sister-in-law we refer to her as dab anyway if you get along with her and yoyour brother just sit and talk to them and let them know how she makes you feel when she yells at you and that ur brother in your eyes seem to betaking her side more then your and that your considered an adult so they don't have to treat you like a child. maybe the three of you can come to an understanding or something.
2007-01-10 15:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by holguin_margarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your brother. Let him know that you are an adult and if he and his wife want your respect they are going to have to give you some. Because you deserve their respect, just don't stoop to her level, because that makes you as bad as she is, and you don't want to be that person, do you? If they cannot respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated then keep your distance until they do.
2007-01-10 15:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tend to agree with olzap. LOL J/k. sister in law's are a pain in the butt. You shouldn't have to put up with that b/s.
About all you can do is to ignore the bi*tch, stay as far away from her as you can. That way you don't have to listen to her crap at all.
2007-01-10 15:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ar 19 then behave like an adult and tell her to mind her own dam business, and that you are not obligated to listen or obey her, Also if you are living with them make immediate plans to get out on your own, you do not need BS like this
2007-01-10 15:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are offended by her behavior. Also tell your brother that you don't appreciate his behavior. I was in the same situation. When I talked to them it got better.
2007-01-10 15:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why is insist on being so hateful to you, confront her and if she wants to act like a child about it then tell her you don't need to deal with her and just ignore her
2007-01-10 15:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god i hate my sister-in-law!! i told my brother if you don't deal with her i would. i have spoken to her in 6yrs...such bliss. really talk civil to your brother tell him find out what's going on with his wife. who knows maybe you are doing something they find offense about your behavior. or some people just like being in charge.
2007-01-10 15:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by irulan10191 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with you re brother, treat her the same way. talk with mom too, is she mean 2 her too????rember blood is thicker than water !
2007-01-10 15:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by danceteacher5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pull her aside and tell her how you feel about how she treats you! If that doesn't work I would tell your mamma. The mom probably doesn't like her no way!
2007-01-10 15:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋