How do I get control back in this situation...
Does she want to be with me or not?
She tells me one thing she tells her friend something different...
She told me she needed space after a fight, when I ask her if we are still together she says she doesn't know she needs to make up her mind, but wants to continue to date me once a week and limit other communications. I asked her directly what our status is and she said she didn;t know
She told her best friend that we were together and just starting over taking things really slow.
What is the truth???
The argument we broke up over is completely my fault.
2007-01-10 06:58:09 · 10 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to snoop in her phone, you don't deserve her. Being in any kind of relationship takes trust, and you obviously don't trust her. If she is telling you and her friend that you are slowing things down, than take it for what it is....a slow down. Not a break up, although I think if she knew what a snoop you were, you would get dumped, pronto.
2007-01-10 07:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's over dude, plain and simple.
She can't answer simple questions, she doesn't want to see you and there is another guy - I mean, you don't have one sign, you have em all!
The only reason that she is sticking around at all is because she is used to you and want her old cake while on the hunt for a tastier desert somewhere else. Trust me bro, as soon as she finds her tasty treat, she's out of there.
Save some time, money, patience and dump her. If anything at all, by doing it first you'll catch her by surprise (because it seems as though she has been making all the decisions concerning the relationship) and that might spark a little more interest.
2007-01-10 15:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by superinteligent shade of blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't want to talk about it and so she gave her friend a quick answer that would explain it. She is probably considering getting back together with you, but she's uncertain and going slow with you, like she says. Be patient. The answers will come with a little more time.
2007-01-10 15:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this situation, i think that your girlfriend wants to find other guys...if she is calling other guys but aren't the guys that are her "friends" then you might want to get straight answers from her. If she keeps on making up excuses or saying she doesn't know and such, then i suggest you find a girl who is more loving and more respectful to your heart. hope this answer works.if u have AIM feel free to IM me. my sn is:bluie4u78078
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-Katherine
2007-01-10 15:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling hurt over the argument and is taking it slow. I think she wants to be with you but is unsure if you will hurt her again like with the last argument. Prove her wrong and they you are in this relationship.
2007-01-10 15:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yo, this is really childish. I don't know why all girls like "taking a break", or "taking things real slow". Either you are together or not. She can't play with you like that forever. Tell her to decide. Fast!
2007-01-10 15:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by harakiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never admit your to blame, you will get ran over for it! Check it out! If she needs space, give it to her. No date, no nothing. tell her if she needs space, go for it but dont be a sucker. Tell her to figure out what she wants and to let you know, but dont take forever cause your not gonna put your life on hold. If she wants to be with you, she'll figure it out fast!
2007-01-10 15:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man tuff life bro......listen...see ive dealt with this couple of weeks ago with my girl and i gave her time off i mean 3 to 4 days...you know it hurts and all you want to call and talk this over but a women has to think about it and it takes them a while....they get hurt easily....give her time it works out i know.....hey im still with her so good luck man
2007-01-10 15:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Orlando 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you. Dump her before she finds someone to replace you with and gives you the boot. Beat her at her own game.
2007-01-10 15:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to repair what you have done
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2007-01-10 15:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋