I saw a girl at church and wanted to meet her but didn't get a chance. I sat down by my friend where I always sit and she was right there to. She knows my friend.
I was going to go attend a dance class but didn't get to go last week. I asked a friend if there was any girls there that I could partner up with and when he told me who showed up for the first time last week I realized it is the same girl. I will be going to the dance class tonight and she will be there.
I attended a Bible Study that she is apart of. I might go on a regular basis. She wasn't there that night and I was glad becuase I would have been nervous.
I have yet to have the courage to meet her. But the circumstances with where I sat in church and the dance class are kinda cool and totally circumstantial ( or is it fate). I attended the Bible study knowing she would be there and partially cause I wanted to meet her. Is this too weird and stalkish? If no interest is shown I will back off.
2007-01-10 06:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't stalking if you ask someone out. Asking when they keep saying no is another issue. Not backing off when she says no is stalking.
2007-01-10 06:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It MIGHT(im not sure) appear stalkish...but it really isnt,obviously. I think its kinda cute that u guys share the same interests n all.Why dont u try talkin to her in the dance class tonight...be nice,n genuine,n honest...(every girl likes a genuine guy)...n see what happens.If she's got a problem,back off..thats it.Although i dont think she will..coz u sound like a nice guy. I know it takes courage to go ahead n talk to someone u like..but then think of it this way...if u do that,who knows,in a few weeks u might be going for the dance classes together :) Good luck!
2007-01-10 15:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of worse places to persue someone than church for sure. I think what you're doing is admirable. I don't think it sounds like stalking, just descent interest shown in a church setting. What a great place to meet someone. You've made some efforts to be seen by her, now introduce yourself to her. Go for it!
2007-01-10 14:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stalking, but i would at least talk to her so she doesn't think you are a stalker. It sounds like fate, but good to back off if no interest is shown.
2007-01-10 14:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalking is when you purposely pursue someone who does not want your attention or does not even know you. If you have bad intentions or if the girl has asked you to leave her alone and you are ignoring her wishes, THAT is stalking. You are trying, if I understand you correctly, to find opportunities to see her and talk with her. That is not stalking.
2007-01-10 14:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not stalkerish haha if you end up following her without her knowing..hiding behind trees when she turns around..then yes! thats creepy and you should stop..if you follow her home..without her knowing..yes that is too..what youre doing no! who cares if you do that..its a way for you to get your courage up...and maybe just maybe you'll talk to her..which i hope you do! good luck with that!
2007-01-10 14:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by RiRi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely not stalking and it gives you a really easy icebreaker. Go for it! Good luck!
2007-01-10 14:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfectly fine as long as u dont start following her. it actually shows that shes worth the effort, and she will luv that bout u
2007-01-10 14:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's just that you like this girl.
It's perfectly normal!
2007-01-10 14:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Gordonsnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is stalking, by the way, are you Omish?
2007-01-10 14:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋