2007-01-10 06:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by talky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Absolutely not...if you think that you are responsible enough to have sex, you should be responsible enough to raise a child. This is sad...i dunno what to say....
oh yeah...how about grow up!
Stop sleeping around is another good one.
2007-01-10 06:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by James C 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
No, of course not. Regardless of who the father is, your baby has done nothing wrong and does not deserve to die. Your baby is totally innocent and deserves your love and protection. After she is born, you can find out for sure who the father is. Until that time, you need to be strong and protect her and yourself. If you have doubts about what you should do, take a look at this information:
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
http://www.nrlc.org/Factsheets/FS15_pilldanger.pdf
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org
2007-01-12 13:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just have the baby and give him/her up to a nice family instead of killing it. I know it's your choice but think about how you are going to feel years down the road if you decide to have other children. When you see how amazing they are you'll regret getting an abortion. Seek counseling before you make this decision, after all this is a life you created.
2007-01-11 15:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by nahimana34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have an abortion....I think that's a lame excuse.
To me people seem to be using abortion as a reason to be a slut....and clearly it shouldn't be a form of birth control since it's obviously not.
I always said that if someone has an abortion they shouldn't be blessed with a child later in life.
2007-01-10 15:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't know who helped get you pregnant you want to kill your child? That's horrible.
I am a firm believer that if you're not ready to be a parent then you shouldn't be having sex. No matter what protection you use nothing is 100% effective. You know the risks when you had sex...now it's time to take responsibility for the life you created. You can always get a DNA test done to find out who the father is.
2007-01-10 14:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever think to give the baby up for adoption. Why must you have an abortion?
2007-01-10 15:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't believe in abortion for abortions sake, but you can talk with Planned Parenthood for help and you can also go to:
www.abortion.com
2007-01-13 04:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, dont make a hasty decision. go for a check-up 1st. find out how far u are in the pregnancy. talk to the baby's father abt it.. if u're really sure u wanna abort, pls do it the right way. go to a certified practitioner. pls think before u do anything ok? take care of urself. appreciate what u have n never regret anything... *hugs*
2007-01-10 14:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No ! This would effect you in so many sad ways,do not do it !
It will make it so you miss that baby! When you have a family You will know what you missed out on !
Hi, mommy it is me a tiny life growing each day inside of you. I have 10 tiny toes and fingers a mouth witch someday i will say i love you with . Take care of me , keep me safe and i will love you in return.
love you mommy
2007-01-10 14:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by danceteacher5555 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You could always go on the Maury Povich Show. He always has women like you on there who don't know who there baby's daddy is.
2007-01-10 15:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by marcella M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you made your bed, now you have to lie in it. I don't think your irresponsibility is a reason to abort a baby. Thats what paternity tests are for. You could always choose adoption.
2007-01-10 14:21:06 · answer #11 · answered by *karasi* 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋